I think I am making decent progress with her. I am trying to explain how this effects the future. It is just hard explaining the long distance situation, she is very clingy so it is difficult trying to explain that it is the right thing to do.

A couple more days or so maybe even tomorrow I think she will understand. Thanks again guys!

Get the job, tell her she can come when she graduates.

Good Luck!

Take the job, Just make sure to visit her at least once a month depending how far distance you're from her. She'll want to come and live with you when she graduates

Thanks again for the advice guys, she finally accepted pretty much that it is something very important in order for me to get a career together so I wont have to struggle.

Any I can't visit every month, 850+ Miles away. From Georgia to Indiana

Targaryen wrote So I need some advice and tips or suggestions on what to do.

Here is my situation:

I currently live in Georgia, USA. Recently really great family friends moved to Indiana, because they got promoted through a company (Company is spectacular, great pay, benefits, vacation, everything, lots of promotions). Anyways since they moved I have acquired a attachment called a Girl Friend, I graduated last year, she has not graduated yet. I just received a job offer to work up there, for great pay. And I get to stay with the family friends until I can get a apartment or what ever to live in up there. So free housing for around a month maybe 2 months I would say. I have wanted to work for this company for ages since I was around 9, so 11 Years roughly. Now I have a opportunity to do so, and I do not know if I will get that chance again.

I need to convince my GF to not have a problem with me going up there, I do not want to break up with her, so long distance will be a thing. Any helpful advice is great might rep to some of you guys depending on if you actually help or not.

Your job and making money to support yourself and possibly her later is more important at the current moment in my eyes. If she is okay with it, try and make things work out where you come back and hang out with her and what not so it isn't completely distant if that makes sense.

But, money is a huge importance and the fact you have wanted to work there and it is good money is a huge deal for you and like I said possibly her later on.