I was exactly in your position honestly you need to stop stringing along the person you dont like not everything can last forever but now that i look back was such a d*ck move of me

UPDATE GUYS: me and the new girl have decided we will definitely see each other, I think it'll work, we are gonna see each others as friends at first then maybe get closer. So i think it'll go well at least i'll try. Thank you so much for all your replies they've all helped me in a way apart from the odd 2 but thats just banter eh

So you left your girlfriend of 8 months just for a girl who you've talked to for 5 days and you don't want people to call you a arsehole?

For all you know that girl could look like this

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Didn't you first go out with this girl because you really liked her etc.?

And now you don't like her anymore
You are going to go for another girl that you really like.

See how this sound familiar? I wouldn't be surprised if you end up losing feelings for this next girl like you did with the first. Especially when she lives far away. And I don't see how you can actually love someone just by talking on the internet, it will be very different in person.

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Ps. Not telling her why you broke up with her and letting her just cry about is a pretty shitty thing to do.

Yeah I did, but I don't wanna sound like a douche, I didn't really like her that much, I knew she liked me so thats why i went out with her to try see if my feelings changed. they did gradually but not to the extent of how much i like this other girl and i've never even met her. I do understand what you're saying but my feelings for this one are so strong its unbelievable :/ Yeah i know it'll be hard af when shes 3 hours away or so

My opinion you was wrong to date your (ex) girlfriend in the start you claimed you really liked her but over time you got bored, now your reversing it in my opinion your just another typical 17 year old, ps you cant actually love someone until you meet them as she could be lying or just playing you you dont know until you meet her and see how she behaves the correct words are you like her, she likes you i still cant stress how wrong it is and how wrong you was in the first place, dating someone just because they like you and you wanted to see if you felt the same , thats wrong you only date someone if your both into eachother, my point is you have now hurt your ex emotionally because you want another girl thats a pretty crappy thing to do, you probably only want the new girl for her looks,i know you said you didnt want comments like dude your a a** but seriously dude your a typical 17 year old a**hole, theres a saying in england upstairs for thinking and downstairs for dancing, looks like you think with your d*** to me bro.

Okay thanks for the reply I can see what you mean, I did like my ex girlfriend but didnt love her like she loved me at the start of the relationship, i wanted to see if my feelings grew anymore for her. Its a true point you made about not loving someone until you've met them, thanks. I have hurt my ex but i couldnt get out the relationship any sooner its like i was trapped and i had to think about myself as well as her, No im not a typical 17 year old asshole as i've never done this before, i dont go misusing girls like other lads. I was thinking with my heart and head, its nothing to do with sexual things as i've not even thought about that. I'm just fascinated on how much i like this girl, no it is not for her looks im not one of those UK assholes that picks the girls all caked up in make-up, i only like her for her personality as its just great i love everything about it. Its amazing. Thanks for your reply though, i know you slagged me off a little bit but im only asking for advice not hate, thank you seriously