At the end of the day, if your decision is to do this, then you'll be the fool for making the mistake, but at the same time i broke up with my ex in November, was with her for 3 years just coming onto 4. I knew a girl had been close with for 6 years she lives a few miles from me and we've had a past for nearly 7 years. We got together in january this year, shes now 7 and a half weeks pregnant and were engaged. Distance does not matter, if your both willing to make it work then take a shot in the dark, Goodluck.

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So let me get this straight, you've had a girlfriend you loved for 8 months, 5 days exposed to another girl and you disregard your girlfriend for a stranger you sold something to 5 days ago. Dude you aint committed one bit if you're that vulnerable. You should know better. Smh. But anyway putting that aside , yeah it was the right thing to do , if you have feelings for 2 people, pick the 2nd because if you loved the first, you wouldn't have feelings for the 2nd.

no no no no no, i did not love my girlfriend i liked her a little i gotta admit but she loved me so i asked her out to try things out, i never said i loved her, or at least i dont think i did :s

Sometime You Don't Have Te Same Feelings For Someone Like You Used To, Sometimes You Dont Get Attracted Anymore, Your Young ( I guess ) so Make The Most Out Of Life And Find Someone You Love And Trust... Hope You Like My Advice And Im Sorry You Both Broke Up.... Everything Gets Better Bro

Prohibit wrote

Didn't you first go out with this girl because you really liked her etc.?

And now you don't like her anymore
You are going to go for another girl that you really like.

See how this sound familiar? I wouldn't be surprised if you end up losing feelings for this next girl like you did with the first. Especially when she lives far away. And I don't see how you can actually love someone just by talking on the internet, it will be very different in person.

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Ps. Not telling her why you broke up with her and letting her just cry about is a pretty shitty thing to do.

Was going to say the exact same thing, just without the scrubiness.

Scrub.

You sir. Are dumb .. Do I need to explain when other users have already done so...

its your life bro
enjoy it

It's not a dick move man
You did want you wanted

So you left you're girlfriend who guinely cares about you over some girl you only been talking to for 5 days? That us pretty petty if you ask me no offense you barely even know this girl rather than you're ex. You said she lives across country? You do know this could be a fake right? Also you are to young for love, litterally everyone says they found this special someone and they think it's going to be good but NO! It's not. You will probably feel this connection for like 2 months at least then you will start to loose this love that you have for this new girl and move on to the next and repeat the same thing. Love is where you would die for the person they are you're soul mate that you will be with for the rest of you're life. Love doesn't happen over night it takes time to truly love the person you want to spend the rest of you're life with "Have Kids, get married, and ect". My advice you should of stayed with you're ex or apologize to her and do whatever it is you got to do to get her back.

ShoeOnHead wrote So you left you're girlfriend who guinely cares about you over some girl you only been talking to for 5 days? That us pretty petty if you ask me no offense you barely even know this girl rather than you're ex. You said she lives across country? You do know this could be a fake right? Also you are to young for love, litterally everyone says they found this special someone and they think it's going to be good but NO! It's not. You will probably feel this connection for like 2 months at least then you will start to loose this love that you have for this new girl and move on to the next and repeat the same thing. Love is where you would die for the person they are you're soul mate that you will be with for the rest of you're life. Love doesn't happen over night it takes time to truly love the person you want to spend the rest of you're life with "Have Kids, get married, and ect". My advice you should of stayed with you're ex or apologize to her and do whatever it is you got to do to get her back.

Yes, in most of that you are probably right but im not one of those 12 year olds that say they love every boyfriend they have and they'd die for them and that, i genuinely feel like i wanna stay with her forever even know i've not met her yet, And yeah i did end it with my girlfriend, i didnt feel that going out with her and liking a different girl at the same time was very fair, plus i wasnt really having the time of my life in the relationship with my ex

I so hope you get catfished 1234((