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I mean you've gone all your life without him pretty much so you don't really need him if I'm being honest, but at the same time it probably won't do any harm trying to build a relationship with him could be a positive thing.

I'd go for just don't expect much then if it does go down hill it won't be as bad hopefully.

Hope whatever you decide to do works out for you though bud.
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There's 2 things I really want to say, and although I may not have a perfect answer for you they are super important.
#1: Don't rush things. You say you want to have a relationship with him, absolutely not wrong at all, but there's things that make you hesitate and worry. That's okay. Don't look into one things too much, but don't ignore how you feel. It's likely you still need time to process the whole situation, and I think it would be great if truly did process it. (This is a great step to doing that)

#2: I hate to see you blame yourself. You didn't do ANYTHING to deserve this and I really hope you can at least see partially where I'm coming from. You're not responsible for your fathers lack of accountability and maturity. Him treating your half sister like a real kid isn't a shot at you in anyway, in fact, it's probably done a lot out of guilt, because he was such a piece of shit at his first attempt.

I hope you're able to get some insight you're looking for, but make sure to look out for yourself and weigh all your options. Please don't forget to take it a little slow if you need to and remind yourself that this is not YOUR fault. You're able to feel worried, overwhelmed, ecstatic, and maybe a little hesitant and sad.

Feel free to message me if you'd like to talk and remember that you have a small community of people who really will try their best to help you out. Oh, and if it's not too personal... let us know what happens. Best of luck!
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