So as some of you may know i always moan about how shit my relationship is with my girlfriend, so i just want you guys opinion on what it is i should do?
So I have been going out with my girlfriend for 2 years now, and this year has been really bad, i must say i do cause most of the problems, but only because she goes on bout things. Like before i meet her i would go raving ever weekend spend all my money like a waste man, and she didnt want that for us which is understandable, as we are both 27 years old and have a kid. So this year i have only been to a few festivals, one being Lost Lands in Ohio, this along caused so many problems as she didnt trust me to go with all my mates, thinking i would cheat on her. She said if i go she would dump me and she did for all of a week, then we got back together again. Raves i must of only been to like 6 raves this year, because i have been trying to spend more time with her and the kid, and wanted to spend money on them, instead of wasting it in a rave. But she is still not happy, the problem is now my job lol, i work night shifts at a film studio 12 hours to 18 hour shifts a day, so i finish at 7am, i would have to go to hers wake her and the kid up and she dont like that, which is far enough. So ive said to her i will get another job, that pays better, because at the moment i only get £90 a shift some times £130, also i said im going to work days, so this way i would be able to spend more time with her and the little one. When i first meet her for the first time the kid was only 5 months old, and was weird at first, being around a baby all day but then as time went on i began to love her so much and would think of her as my own kid, the little one is 2 years old now, and she calls me daddy which i love, and i hope one day to adopt her. But it just seems i cant do nothink right, so at first it was the raves, so then i stopped, but now she moved on to work being a problem. The other problems we have had, and i suppose i started it of, is when we was taking a break for the relationship, i messaged a random girl on Facebook, she found out and this was a whole new problem. The point i made to her, it was her that broke it of and wanted the break, so we was not together when i messaged another girl. So we got over that drama, so then the next drama, we broke up again, she messaged me saying shes going out with a guy friend and she said she has been messaging a guy on whats app, so as soon as i heard this i went of the rails and watched Titanic with a girl holding her hand for all of 5 minutes lol, but she was a work mate, i was not attracted to her in any way i was just feeling upset and annoyed she has messaged another guy. So i got pissed of again and i told her i was cuddling a girl at work watching Titanic, i made it sounded worse than what actually happen to make her pissed of and it worked. So then the other drama im have is with here always talking about this guy and how she gonna go meet up with him because im too busy at work. But she always just says his a guy friend, but i know exactly what that means, im no fool. The other drama is shes pissed i still live at home, but its been more and more drama every time i say well why dont i move in. But i dont want this now, next year im saying for a house and if she wants to move in with me then she can. So anyway, just now we have broken up again, but the kid is not with her tonight, so i was thinking of going round there in the morning but she will be pissed that i woke her up but i think i can sweet talk her into bed hopefully and work this mess out. So what shall i do lol, what do you think about this mess, in the 2 years we been together we have broken up like 8 times, and blocked each other on Facebook and whats app like 500 times lol, i just dont see this working out. what do you guys think i should do ?