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So when I was in middle school I had a crush on this boy but he didn't know I exist. But now in highschool were both Juniors but he still doesn't know I exist why because he take regular classes and i take online classes but we both go to the same school. I see him all the time be he doesn't notice me. But there are 2 problems 1 I'm in a online class, and 2 he used to be a little fat but now he's not and I'm the one that a little fat. Cause after middle school my depression gotten a lot worse so I guess so I guess my stupid self though the best way to cope was to eat myself fat. So Im asking should I stop thinking about him and realize I'm going to be a stupid fat girl and nobody will like me cause I'm the one that did this to myself. Or should I try to get do something to make him notice me.

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have y'all ever had any type of discussion or friendship so it could kind of be normal if you tried to become closer with him?
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Well firstly stop telling yourself that your 'fatness' will prevent him from liking you, or anyone for that matter as there's someone for everyone. You need to find confidence with your body and yourself so stop telling yourself you're 'stupid' and 'fat'.

Regarding the lad, you should test the waters and don't come on too strong; for example, just a simple 'Hi' as you go past him - he might not respond but this will get him to notice you. If he doesn't respond the first few times don't sweat it - he sounds like one of those boys who are very different when with friends and in which case if this difference is huge, he isn't worth your time. This goes for everyone, just simply say 'Hi' to people (don't overdo it) or say thanks if someone holds the door for you or you could hold it for them.

Being more positive about yourself is much more attractive to other people than in your current frame of mind, so just try the little things like said above. And if this lad shuts you down, don't sweat it - having the positive attitute will surely attract attention from someone you don't even expect or 'notice' yourself.

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Hey. Fat people are usually the happier ones. If he doesn't t like you because of it. Then he ain't worth the breath you waste on trying.

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Hey being a little overweight isnt bad so there's nothing to be ashamed of, But to reiterate and add my point, Self-Confidence is always a good thing to have so dont think that because your a little big that hes going to be put off. If he dosent like you back, then having the self-confidence bit helps loads as you can stand up and move on. There's plenty more fish in the sea

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I would try to be friends with him, maybe go up and try to talk to him, because if you don't youll regret it!
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-Silky wroteWell firstly stop telling yourself that your 'fatness' will prevent him from liking you, or anyone for that matter as there's someone for everyone. You need to find confidence with your body and yourself so stop telling yourself you're 'stupid' and 'fat'.

Regarding the lad, you should test the waters and don't come on too strong; for example, just a simple 'Hi' as you go past him - he might not respond but this will get him to notice you. If he doesn't respond the first few times don't sweat it - he sounds like one of those boys who are very different when with friends and in which case if this difference is huge, he isn't worth your time. This goes for everyone, just simply say 'Hi' to people (don't overdo it) or say thanks if someone holds the door for you or you could hold it for them.

Being more positive about yourself is much more attractive to other people than in your current frame of mind, so just try the little things like said above. And if this lad shuts you down, don't sweat it - having the positive attitute will surely attract attention from someone you don't even expect or 'notice' yourself.

Feel free to mesage me if any more advice is needed.

-Silky couldn't have said it better. This is probably the best advice you could get, and exactly what I was going to say.
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I hear what you guys are saying but the thing is that, I can't talk to him cause like I said he goes to regular classes for 8 hrs and I do online classes for 4 hrs and we're not in the same class. I'm. On one side of the school and he's on the other and its a big school.
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Ilovememesbro wroteI hear what you guys are saying but the thing is that, I can't talk to him cause like I said he goes to regular classes for 8 hrs and I do online classes for 4 hrs and we're not in the same class. I'm. On one side of the school and he's on the other and its a big school.


snapchat, imessage, instagram, text

ask around about him or get someone to get a message to him for you
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Ilovememesbro wroteI hear what you guys are saying but the thing is that, I can't talk to him cause like I said he goes to regular classes for 8 hrs and I do online classes for 4 hrs and we're not in the same class. I'm. On one side of the school and he's on the other and its a big school.



Well cant you message him and ask to meet up? Or dont you have him on social media? Either way if you go out of your way to meet him, It shows him that you care and your willing to do whatever it takes to let him know you like him. Might sound scary at first but after a short while, You'll get used to it. Sorry if this hasnt helped but ive tried
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