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I really got in depth with this and It really hurts me to say it but here it is



Ok, so this girl and I start talking right and then boom we hit it off. I already had a slight crush on her and she was interested in me and then day by day we talk about normal relationship stuff, she was interested in me and I was interested in and her. She keeps sending me traps all day long and I'm totally interested in her. She was literally really really nice and I had such amazing times texting her but then literally the next day, she just says I don' t want to be in a relationship and you know that actually literally broke me because we shared so many things the day before and there was this other girl that I liked as well and she was good as well but I ended up dropping her. But when she shared those words I literally broke in half cause I imagined everything like she sent me everything about her and I was really really interested in her like this could finally be my breakthrough. Cause before I had been broken up with 6 times in a row and I though this could be my time to finally get someone and then boom she doesn't want to be in a relationship. I'm just literally done with everything so far. Like I'm literally the nicest guy, like I get good grades and everything that I do is good and the fact that you just come and just say I don't want to be in a relationship just really hurts me because I spend so much time with you and actually took time out of my day to text you because you felt that way and I felt that way too just knowing at the end you were going to hurt me when I turned down another girl that was so much nicer and better just for this to happen at the end. It hurts you know, that why I wasn't on TTG the whole entire time and that's why I'm just thinking about what I should do now cause is it even worth it to try anymore cause this shit hurts me.

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Same kind of stuff has happened to me and continually happens to me brother.

Something that I will say, having been in the same situation multiple times, don't let it be your breaking point. There are plenty of girls out there man. I felt the way you were feeling when I was in high school. Got to college and there are so many more people here and the possibilities and great people like yourself are endless. You will find good people out there. Just don't stop being the good person that you are. I promise there are people that recognize it. It may take time, but, you will find someone that cares just as much for you as you do for them. I believe in you buddy
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I've been in those relationships , just get you're self settled in , get yourself happy so that one girl walks in you're life .. a lot of women broke me , but that's because I wasn't ready for them to come into my life yet , I was just happy to talk to them . You will find that one girl of you're life , be strong don't let her effect you.

There is 100,000,000+ fishes in the sea , luckly the ONE is hard to find , but at the right moment it will work out .

I promise , one day , everything will work out just fine.

I hope I helped a little

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Honestly if they break up with you for no reason like that then screw them. You'll find someone eventually, and I wouldn't be too upset about it.
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This was sorta hard to write... Cause it hit me with so much emotions.. I cried for 5-10 minutes .-. but is ok now .-. Anyway, hopefully the things I added at the end really help you <3

My ex girlfriend just woke up one day and said "Jay, I think this isn't working" I've done everything she asked and took care of her and made sure she took her anti depressants and anxiety meds, I was emotionally attached because I thought I found the right one... But She just got up and got her stuff and left...

**** me up for about the whole summer ( it was this year btw ) and I've been having trouble sleeping, eating or even socializing.. and even got to the point of me really endangering myself.. ( Twice, I tried to end my life, twice i have failed because I wasn't comfortable actually going outside to do it.. i stayed in my house.. but i've been found in really bad states.. )

I'm still recovering from all that shit..

Now.. For the helpful part..

Try distract yourself for as long as possible each day without thinking about it.. It's gonna be hard as shit to start with and trust me it can hurt a whole lot worse than the breakup.. but listen to music, play games, even start meditating.. ( Meditating helps so **** much.. put light acoustic guitar on youtube / spotify or just ocean noises or Japanese instrumental music )

For me, I've gotten really into Norse Paganism.. Finding strength and other things in it to carry on, this may not be for you.. but it's something .-.


And for those interested in my health
I am fine, i'm ok, I am doing a lot better and i'm actually happy to have a boyfriend now. Slight on and off depressive episodes but yeah..



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That's why you tell her you don't want a relationship either and you two can still see each other occasionally. Then the times you do see her you can impress her and make her want you.
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I've learned a lot though my relationships. I had a long time girlfriend, 3 years, litterly from middle school until highschool. When we broke up I was sooo hearbroken, couldn't eat for days, even if I tried to eat something I would have a gag reflex. Now a year later, im grateful that we did break up because it taught me things. What im saying is use the hurt as a lesson. Everything happens for a reason. Just think if you did get in a relationship with her for years and she breaks up with you, just imagine the heartbreak. There are girls out there waiting for someone just like you.
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I'm age 20 and don't plan on telling a girl I love her or being serious with her till age like 26 im always in and out of relationships cuz it's a learning process to.find out what u like and don't like I'm relationships till u find that perfect girl which in my opion I'm not interested in finding till age 26 till then ima live life and enjoy it
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How long have you known this girl? Has she ever said she loves you or anything because that just sounds like a girl friend. Maybe just talking about relationship stuff wasn't meant for anything, especially if it was you who brought up the questions etc then she would only just reply. Now she's friendzoned you there can't have been any feeling she felt for you. Best to just leave it and move on, remain friends if you like her and maybe one day you might progress
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I have sort of the same problem my girlfriend acts like my girlfriend then other days she doesn't act like my girlfriend put it this way my friend don't chase someone who isn't certain in themselves I'd leave her be and get on with your life nobody's got time for that.
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