You are viewing our Forum Archives. To view or take place in current topics click here.
will my life ever change?
Posted:
will my life ever change?Posted:
Status: Offline
Joined: Aug 11, 201310Year Member
Posts: 259
Reputation Power: 55
Status: Offline
Joined: Aug 11, 201310Year Member
Posts: 259
Reputation Power: 55
I'm sorry in advance i didn't think i would write this much.
(I spaced it because i know it can be hard when words run together)
But i hope you read it and give your input it would mean so much to me
Recently around may my girlfriend of 3 1/2 months broke up with me.
We we're doing long distance for a while seen each other once. We talked on skype for hours
and hours at one point we had a 3 day skype call. we had so much fun together we'd even skype
while she study id play video games. We just talked for ever and ever on and on about anything
we were. So in love that the distance was slowly destroying us. I loved her she was so perfect in
so many ways. The way she talked to me and said my name sent so many chills down my spine.
I couldn't go a day without texting, calling, seeing her. She had meant the world to me. Around 3
months i thought this girl that i had loved would be my "one." i thought it was so true. The times
we spent together, the memories we made, the moments we enjoyed together, all of it just
making my life complete. After two weeks or so she seemed kinda down, so i had asked her how
she was feeling. She then continued to tell me that she wasn't feeling the relationship anymore.
Right there and then i took a step back and tried to figure out were i went wrong. Trying to find
the place i had screwed up. I took a look and realized, there was little bits and pieces of times
where i was so rude and mean to this beautiful girl i had called my girlfriend that i was about to
lose. That all i could do is watch and accept the defeat, the loss of such an amazing girl i let slip
right out from under my palms. I tried and tried again an pleaded her to stay because she was all
i really had know these past months. She said her final words and we stopped talking for about a
week. I myself took off work to dwell on such a tragic event that just happened. I starved myself, I
didn't leave my room much at all, I neglected everything that was in my way because I was so
caught up on this break up that tore me to pieces that sucked me dry emotionally and physically
that i didn't want to do anything. She got over me within about 2 weeks. Me, Myself, I was still
sick and crying that she had left me so heart broken. I can't go a day without thinking about this
women she meant so much to me. I wish she would take me back. My life would be then
complete with her. She made my life whole for a change. But after all that to find out yesterday
she had moved on. She had found a new boyfriend. I think to myself and stress myself out much
that there is another guy out there making this girl happier then i can. It breaks me so much to
know that i have yet failed another person in my life. I don't know what to do in life anymore
every time i try and find a solution it always ends in a blank path. I have no where to go anymore
i'm so lost and lonely. I'm at the point in life where i thinking taking my own life would be better
then living another day. Although the thoughts are daily I still try and find that little bit of light at
the end of the tunnel. I still and try and find hope that one day my life might maybe one day
change for the better. But who knows, will my life ever change?
(I spaced it because i know it can be hard when words run together)
But i hope you read it and give your input it would mean so much to me
Recently around may my girlfriend of 3 1/2 months broke up with me.
We we're doing long distance for a while seen each other once. We talked on skype for hours
and hours at one point we had a 3 day skype call. we had so much fun together we'd even skype
while she study id play video games. We just talked for ever and ever on and on about anything
we were. So in love that the distance was slowly destroying us. I loved her she was so perfect in
so many ways. The way she talked to me and said my name sent so many chills down my spine.
I couldn't go a day without texting, calling, seeing her. She had meant the world to me. Around 3
months i thought this girl that i had loved would be my "one." i thought it was so true. The times
we spent together, the memories we made, the moments we enjoyed together, all of it just
making my life complete. After two weeks or so she seemed kinda down, so i had asked her how
she was feeling. She then continued to tell me that she wasn't feeling the relationship anymore.
Right there and then i took a step back and tried to figure out were i went wrong. Trying to find
the place i had screwed up. I took a look and realized, there was little bits and pieces of times
where i was so rude and mean to this beautiful girl i had called my girlfriend that i was about to
lose. That all i could do is watch and accept the defeat, the loss of such an amazing girl i let slip
right out from under my palms. I tried and tried again an pleaded her to stay because she was all
i really had know these past months. She said her final words and we stopped talking for about a
week. I myself took off work to dwell on such a tragic event that just happened. I starved myself, I
didn't leave my room much at all, I neglected everything that was in my way because I was so
caught up on this break up that tore me to pieces that sucked me dry emotionally and physically
that i didn't want to do anything. She got over me within about 2 weeks. Me, Myself, I was still
sick and crying that she had left me so heart broken. I can't go a day without thinking about this
women she meant so much to me. I wish she would take me back. My life would be then
complete with her. She made my life whole for a change. But after all that to find out yesterday
she had moved on. She had found a new boyfriend. I think to myself and stress myself out much
that there is another guy out there making this girl happier then i can. It breaks me so much to
know that i have yet failed another person in my life. I don't know what to do in life anymore
every time i try and find a solution it always ends in a blank path. I have no where to go anymore
i'm so lost and lonely. I'm at the point in life where i thinking taking my own life would be better
then living another day. Although the thoughts are daily I still try and find that little bit of light at
the end of the tunnel. I still and try and find hope that one day my life might maybe one day
change for the better. But who knows, will my life ever change?
The following 1 user thanked -Daddy for this useful post:
Xbox (05-14-2017)
#2. Posted:
Status: Offline
Joined: Jan 02, 201410Year Member
Posts: 1,023
Reputation Power: 104
Status: Offline
Joined: Jan 02, 201410Year Member
Posts: 1,023
Reputation Power: 104
bro I have been single for 16 years surely you can too. forget that girl.
suicide hotline: 1-800-273-8255
suicide hotline: 1-800-273-8255
- 1useful
- 0not useful
#3. Posted:
Status: Offline
Joined: Nov 03, 20149Year Member
Posts: 123
Reputation Power: 4
Don't let it get to you, plenty of fish in the sea.. Don't let a relationship unmotivateyou. Me and my girlfriend of 3 years split up a month ago and it's the best thing that's happened to me, focus on something to do with yourself. Don't think about her, find something else to keep you entertained there's always something, but mainly don't kill your self that's just dumb
- 1useful
- 0not useful
#4. Posted:
Status: Offline
Joined: May 10, 20149Year Member
Posts: 8,797
Reputation Power: 2313
Please dont say shit like that man I have depression and it seems your just sad over a break up theres a big difference between being sad daily and breaking up with a girl.This might seem insesitive of me but this is something you will get over eventually.I just hate when people say stuff how they are depressed over a break up etc when it will be something you will get over.It gives us people with real mental illnesses a bad rep.Downvote if you want just had to get my point across.
Last edited by Vial ; edited 1 time in total
Last edited by Vial ; edited 1 time in total
- 7useful
- 3not useful
#5. Posted:
Status: Offline
Joined: Jun 29, 201112Year Member
Posts: 3,853
Reputation Power: 390
i read up until three and a half months. Bruh...
Edit: - Still not a reason to have these dark thoughts and not seek help. Although i dont believe what your feeling is right you should definitely talk to a friend or a professional.
Edit 2 - nvrmnd
Last edited by Carl ; edited 2 times in total
Edit: - Still not a reason to have these dark thoughts and not seek help. Although i dont believe what your feeling is right you should definitely talk to a friend or a professional.
Edit 2 - nvrmnd
Last edited by Carl ; edited 2 times in total
- 1useful
- 0not useful
#6. Posted:
Status: Offline
Joined: Jan 09, 20159Year Member
Posts: 5,236
Reputation Power: 5629
Status: Offline
Joined: Jan 09, 20159Year Member
Posts: 5,236
Reputation Power: 5629
its hard to move on from a girl who you literally love and someone who cared about you.. telling him to forget about her will make things worse besides its not easy to forget about someone like that. i know because i can relate to him but me it took me a year to get my girl back it was all worth it. my tip: dont forget about her... cause if he breaks her heart you can go get her and be there for her.. cause what you do to one person it will happen to the next.. always happens. if you still can text her just keep making sure shes okay dont flirt till its your chance.
but if a girl walks up to you go for it and let your ex go
Last edited by Rareparrot ; edited 1 time in total
but if a girl walks up to you go for it and let your ex go
Last edited by Rareparrot ; edited 1 time in total
- 0useful
- 0not useful
#7. Posted:
Status: Offline
Joined: Jan 05, 201311Year Member
Posts: 2,177
Reputation Power: 32
I was in this situation about a week ago, but with a less lengthier relationship. Accept the fact that she no longer has feelings towards you, easier said than done, I know, but just accept it. Once that's accepted, talk about it with someone, i guess in this case it's with TTG, but i recommend talking to it with some friends, of both genders, and once that's done, just get busy in life with all its beauty.
- 0useful
- 0not useful
#8. Posted:
Status: Offline
Joined: Aug 11, 201310Year Member
Posts: 259
Reputation Power: 55
Status: Offline
Joined: Aug 11, 201310Year Member
Posts: 259
Reputation Power: 55
Vial wrote Please dont say shit like that man I have depression and it seems your just sad over a break up theres a big difference between being sad daily and breaking up with a girl.This might seem insesitive of me but this is something you will get over eventually.I just hate when people say stuff how they are depressed over a break up etc when it will be something you will get over eventually.It gives us people with real mental illnesses a bad rep.Downvote if you want just had to get my point across.
You have no idea who i am or how i feel on a daily basis. What makes you think that I'm not sad daily or depressed? Everyone is fighting their own battle with depression. No matter how big or how small we are all dealing with it somehow. Also what the hell is with you and every one who posted on this damn topic talking about ending my life? Is that what everyone got from this? That i just wanted to kill myself or some break up? I know one day i'll get better. I know i'll live to see another day, but that does not give you the right to down talk me. Especially when all im trying to do is vent.
- 1useful
- 0not useful
#9. Posted:
Status: Offline
Joined: Dec 17, 201013Year Member
Posts: 4,245
Reputation Power: 1374
Breakups can be pretty heavy on people, everybody feels a different type of way towards relationships. Now, I can understand you perfectly. A breakup can feel like you put your all into something and at the end, it feels like you did nothing at all. Like another comment said, there are plenty of fish in the sea. There's more than a billion people roaming on this Earth, don't get hung up on just ONE person. What I always believe is that each relationship that doesn't work, is a step closer to finding the perfect person. I've been single for a few years now (with the exception of an occasional fling now and then which none seemed to work out) but you can't be in a hurry. You don't NEED a relationship.
- 0useful
- 0not useful
#10. Posted:
Status: Offline
Joined: Aug 11, 201310Year Member
Posts: 259
Reputation Power: 55
Status: Offline
Joined: Aug 11, 201310Year Member
Posts: 259
Reputation Power: 55
Vauxious wrote Breakups can be pretty heavy on people, everybody feels a different type of way towards relationships. Now, I can understand you perfectly. A breakup can feel like you put your all into something and at the end, it feels like you did nothing at all. Like another comment said, there are plenty of fish in the sea. There's more than a billion people roaming on this Earth, don't get hung up on just ONE person. What I always believe is that each relationship that doesn't work, is a step closer to finding the perfect person. I've been single for a few years now (with the exception of an occasional fling now and then which none seemed to work out) but you can't be in a hurry. You don't NEED a relationship.
i can agree with you a relationship is definitely not needed. For me though im at the point in life where i'm happy with who i am and what i'm made of. I just had thought that a relationship would be a great addition to my life.
- 2useful
- 0not useful
You are viewing our Forum Archives. To view or take place in current topics click here.