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I Honestly hate when people say this to me or just say this in general ... So I'm changing up my hairstyle & this girl that I have been "talking" to for awhile now says "That's going to take away from your looks" I'm like well I don't care what you or anybody else thinks about it "I" want the hairstyle ... honestly girls like that really irk my nerves smh .... I'm the same person just a different hairstyle I guess it's just my generation so caught up on how somebody look instead of their personality .
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It's your life mate don't let others make u feel like that ,

You do what you've got to do, just block them out
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Thats just the generation we live in, and its not gonna get any better, dont have to care bout them man judgin u do what u want
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It's not just your generation it is been this way for a long time just as you grow older and you marry woman could care less what they look like hopefully when you get married you're married for the right reasons. Because if that reason the long getting married is their luxe it will not make it.

I was into looks all the way through high school and looks good do you have to choose whether you have something in common with that person.

I wanted to be the one that dated miss popular I realize most of the time they were not very intelligent and we really didn't have anything in common
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Don't let anyone dictate what goes on in your life bro, do it for yourself, not for anyone else
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Everybody's thinks every bad thing started with this generation lol
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Three words, Just be yourself.

Don't conform to what others what you to be or what they want you to do.
You are you, you are the only one that can control what you do and what you think is best for yourself.
YOU are the only YOU there will ever be, nobody will ever be exactly the same as you. So just be your own person, follow what you want to do, be yourself, and live how you want to live.
Don't do things just because somebody else wants you to do it.
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> hates when people have opinions
> blames the entire generation

seems fair
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I'm sure the girl meant no harm in what she was saying, all she was implying is that your hairstyle either draws attention away from your looks (which is her giving a compliment to your looks) or that your hairstyle just generally makes you look less attractive. People do care how you look, someone covered in gang tatoos and a shaved head is going to be perceived differently than the average person simply because of the way they look.

You can't see your hair or your face unless you're looking into a mirror or another reflection (which is usually just morning and night). Sure, dress in the clothes you want because it gives a certain impression, you can look rich, athletic etc just by the clothes you decide to wear. But your hairstyle either looks good or bad, that's pretty much as far as it goes.

If a girl is telling you that she thinks your hairstyle makes you look less attractice then you should listen to her instead of complaining and ranting. I'd like to think that people would tell me if my haircut was bad and not just say that it was nice because that's what I want to hear.

Your attutitude is what I'd expect a ten year old child to have when they're told that they can't have a purple mohawk by their parents. The girl was complementing your looks and you've just made a rant about it
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Motivational wroteI'm sure the girl meant no harm in what she was saying, all she was implying is that your hairstyle either draws attention away from your looks (which is her giving a compliment to your looks) or that your hairstyle just generally makes you look less attractive. People do care how you look, someone covered in gang tatoos and a shaved head is going to be perceived differently than the average person simply because of the way they look.

You can't see your hair or your face unless you're looking into a mirror or another reflection (which is usually just morning and night). Sure, dress in the clothes you want because it gives a certain impression, you can look rich, athletic etc just by the clothes you decide to wear. But your hairstyle either looks good or bad, that's pretty much as far as it goes.

If a girl is telling you that she thinks your hairstyle makes you look less attractice then you should listen to her instead of complaining and ranting. I'd like to think that people would tell me if my haircut was bad and not just say that it was nice because that's what I want to hear.

Your attutitude is what I'd expect a ten year old child to have when they're told that they can't have a purple mohawk by their parents. The girl was complementing your looks and you've just made a rant about it



I love when I trigger people to these posts wasn't mad at all or upset lmao . But I appreciate you righting that on my post buddy
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