If she doesn't like you anymore, she doesn't like you. Nothing you can do about it. Not sure if or why youd want to be with someone who's not interested anyway. Just make the best out of whatever happens. If you don't want to lose her, tell her that but say that you don't want her to just keep messing with you.

X-23 wrote "Give her space", is bullshit. That's the absolute worst thing you can do right now. You give her space and before you know it, you find out she's cheating on you, and you'll be devastated.

I'm going to be honest, with the way you're describing her recent actions, there's already another guy. The best thing you can do is man up, tell her how you feel, and end it. You'll recover faster doing this, I promise you. Staying in a soon to be shit show like this will only hurt you more, you'll basically be torutring yourself.

Don't stay with her because you feel "she's the one" or "there's no one like her". You're damn right there's no one like her, in fact, there are thousands that are better.

That's never exactly right and of course " Giving her space " isn't the best option.. but what do you expect him to do constantly be at her about it, you don't know for sure if there's another guy or not it could just be lack of failing or being around each other to much, there's so many things it could be so why think the worst of it.

but I agree with you, there's always someone better and eventually you'll find the right person, but it takes time and when you love someone it's not always as " easy " as just saying **** it it's over.. it hurts, you've of course experienced it by what I read and you've got through it, but if it's that stage he's not there yet, found your post a bit to out there..

As shitty as this sound you should give her space and time

X-23 wrote "Give her space", is bullshit. That's the absolute worst thing you can do right now. You give her space and before you know it, you find out she's cheating on you, and you'll be devastated.

I'm going to be honest, with the way you're describing her recent actions, there's already another guy. The best thing you can do is man up, tell her how you feel, and end it. You'll recover faster doing this, I promise you. Staying in a soon to be shit show like this will only hurt you more, you'll basically be torutring yourself.

Don't stay with her because you feel "she's the one" or "there's no one like her". You're damn right there's no one like her, in fact, there are thousands that are better.

at least he will know who she really is, if he gives her space and she does that ?

Zooka wrote

X-23 wrote "Give her space", is bullshit. That's the absolute worst thing you can do right now. You give her space and before you know it, you find out she's cheating on you, and you'll be devastated.

I'm going to be honest, with the way you're describing her recent actions, there's already another guy. The best thing you can do is man up, tell her how you feel, and end it. You'll recover faster doing this, I promise you. Staying in a soon to be shit show like this will only hurt you more, you'll basically be torutring yourself.

Don't stay with her because you feel "she's the one" or "there's no one like her". You're damn right there's no one like her, in fact, there are thousands that are better.

at least he will know who she really is, if he gives her space and she does that ?

I guess I'm the only guy who doesn't get hung up on drama and women.

I dissconnect from people very easily, most people can't do that. I gave him my adivce, if he uses it, good. If he doesn't, that's okay too.

What I said could be the complete truth, some people cant handle that.

X-23 wrote

Zooka wrote

X-23 wrote "Give her space", is bullshit. That's the absolute worst thing you can do right now. You give her space and before you know it, you find out she's cheating on you, and you'll be devastated.

I'm going to be honest, with the way you're describing her recent actions, there's already another guy. The best thing you can do is man up, tell her how you feel, and end it. You'll recover faster doing this, I promise you. Staying in a soon to be shit show like this will only hurt you more, you'll basically be torutring yourself.

Don't stay with her because you feel "she's the one" or "there's no one like her". You're damn right there's no one like her, in fact, there are thousands that are better.

at least he will know who she really is, if he gives her space and she does that ?

I guess I'm the only guy who doesn't get hung up on drama and women.

I dissconnect from people very easily, most people can't do that. I gave him my adivce, if he uses it, good. If he doesn't, that's okay too.

What I said could be the complete truth, some people handle that.

I understand I'm the same just not when it comes to someone I'm close to, it can hurt a lot, so you don't know how it's really feeling it's not give us much information to jump to the conclusion that she's cheating, that's wrong in my opinion it may be true.. but it's not confirmed and him waiting to see how things go before he decides, is a lot better than breaking up with her when he clearly has a strong bond, her " letting him know " and it may hurt him a lot more than he is now, but he'll know who she is as a person, he's asking for advice, not someone to decide his fate.

Dude, don't worry, I went through this, basically was about 8 months into relationship and this started happening, it just seemed as if neither of us where interested anymore, so we spoke about it and stayed together hoping that the problems would solve themselves, but they got worse, we constantly argued and argued and argued, began really disliking eachother, and felt as if everything was lost, so we decided to have a long ass break, and what was meanto he would've happened, 1 month later I was out with friends and she was out with friends when we met eachother at the bar, both already drunk, got to talking, got on better than we ever had, she came back to my house where we had some drinks and got high off all sorts of shit, and just talked until like 6am, after that things where normal and here I am 2 years with her couldn't be happier.

Lmao that is a long ass para but point is, whatever is for you, will not go past you buddy, so don't worry to much if it is over, plenty more girls out there:)

X-23 wrote

Zooka wrote

X-23 wrote "Give her space", is bullshit. That's the absolute worst thing you can do right now. You give her space and before you know it, you find out she's cheating on you, and you'll be devastated.

I'm going to be honest, with the way you're describing her recent actions, there's already another guy. The best thing you can do is man up, tell her how you feel, and end it. You'll recover faster doing this, I promise you. Staying in a soon to be shit show like this will only hurt you more, you'll basically be torutring yourself.

Don't stay with her because you feel "she's the one" or "there's no one like her". You're damn right there's no one like her, in fact, there are thousands that are better.

at least he will know who she really is, if he gives her space and she does that ?

I guess I'm the only guy who doesn't get hung up on drama and women.

I dissconnect from people very easily, most people can't do that. I gave him my adivce, if he uses it, good. If he doesn't, that's okay too.

What I said could be the complete truth, some people cant handle that.

and that can be a good thing or a bad thing, but were all different and need to respect that. not sure if you ever been in love but it's not so easy to just "disconnect from someone very easily"

Canningball wrote Dude, don't worry, I went through this, basically was about 8 months into relationship and this started happening, it just seemed as if neither of us where interested anymore, so we spoke about it and stayed together hoping that the problems would solve themselves, but they got worse, we constantly argued and argued and argued, began really disliking eachother, and felt as if everything was lost, so we decided to have a long ass break, and what was meanto he would've happened, 1 month later I was out with friends and she was out with friends when we met eachother at the bar, both already drunk, got to talking, got on better than we ever had, she came back to my house where we had some drinks and got high off all sorts of shit, and just talked until like 6am, after that things where normal and here I am 2 years with her couldn't be happier.

Lmao that is a long ass para but point is, whatever is for you, will not go past you buddy, so don't worry to much if it is over, plenty more girls out there:)

alcohol is rehab 101.

X-23 wrote "Give her space", is bullshit. That's the absolute worst thing you can do right now. You give her space and before you know it, you find out she's cheating on you, and you'll be devastated.

I'm going to be honest, with the way you're describing her recent actions, there's already another guy. The best thing you can do is man up, tell her how you feel, and end it. You'll recover faster doing this, I promise you. Staying in a soon to be shit show like this will only hurt you more, you'll basically be torutring yourself.

Don't stay with her because you feel "she's the one" or "there's no one like her". You're damn right there's no one like her, in fact, there are thousands that are better.

'Give her space' Is not 'Bullshit' You must have trust issues pal? Cheating? Are you serious?

Her reactions are perfectly normal for any woman, It doesn't mean there is a new guy in the picture atall, tell her how you feel, end it? Are you mad? You don't just end a relationship because you're going through a rough patch and she's feeling off, you give each other space and time for one another to figure things out and decide what you really want.

You're chatting nonsense, they have built a relationship together, you can't just leave things like that, you're delusional or have never touched a girl in your life, don't bother quoting me