Just be yourself bro. Don't look for a girlfriend. The best relationships come from nowhere.

Aqua_C27 wrote

Tight wrote You're still extremely young so realize that you have time to find a girlfriend. There's no need to rush into a relationship as that's not usually the most ideal way. Also, I don't recommend dating apps for a 14 year old considering most people on them are 18 years of age and older.

My mom allows me to have a GF/date... my mom let me start dating at around 4-5 years old somewhere around those ages... I don't remember exactly xD

Oh boy.. The best advice I can give you is give it time. Socialize with new people and get to know them better. School is a great place to socialize and make friends especially at your age.

Tight wrote

Aqua_C27 wrote

Tight wrote You're still extremely young so realize that you have time to find a girlfriend. There's no need to rush into a relationship as that's not usually the most ideal way. Also, I don't recommend dating apps for a 14 year old considering most people on them are 18 years of age and older.

My mom allows me to have a GF/date... my mom let me start dating at around 4-5 years old somewhere around those ages... I don't remember exactly xD

Oh boy.. The best advice I can give you is give it time. Socialize with new people and get to know them better. School is a great place to socialize and make friends especially at your age.

I agree with Tight, give dating a few years.

Honestly, don't bother with girls at fourteen.

People change dramatically between fourteen and their twenties, that girl who loves art and music could change her hair colour, start loving cars and become a full time mechanic by the time she's twenty. You have absolutely no idea what you want or what your opinions are on certain things until you become older.

Focus on the things that matter like education, your health and so on. You could start going to the gym and build a decent physique and then by the time you're eighteen or nineteen and you've finished school then you could focus on girls and you'll be able to find someone perfect.

Also stay away from dating sites at fourteen, like seriously.

A) You don't want to get catfished at fourteen as someone has already said
B) There's absolutely no point in internet dating. By doing it, you're literally admitting that you don't have enough confidence to actually chat up a girl in person and you want to do it on the internet instead. That's not going to help to improve your confidence and it's not a very good way to say how you met your girlfriend to someone. I'm not bashing people that do it but there's no need to have a child on an adult dating website, that's just completely wrong.

You're better off waiting till you're older and finding someone who shares the same interest and when you're at a better time in your life. The whole idea of dating is to find someone to settle down and have a family with, and unless you plan to buy a house and have children soon, I wouldn't bother. You sound like you just need some better friends to be honest.

Motivational wrote Honestly, don't bother with girls at fourteen.

People change dramatically between fourteen and their twenties, that girl who loves art and music could change her hair colour, start loving cars and become a full time mechanic by the time she's twenty. You have absolutely no idea what you want or what your opinions are on certain things until you become older.

Focus on the things that matter like education, your health and so on. You could start going to the gym and build a decent physique and then by the time you're eighteen or nineteen and you've finished school then you could focus on girls and you'll be able to find someone perfect.

Also stay away from dating sites at fourteen, like seriously.

A) You don't want to get catfished at fourteen as someone has already said
B) There's absolutely no point in internet dating. By doing it, you're literally admitting that you don't have enough confidence to actually chat up a girl in person and you want to do it on the internet instead. That's not going to help to improve your confidence and it's not a very good way to say how you met your girlfriend to someone. I'm not bashing people that do it but there's no need to have a child on an adult dating website, that's just completely wrong.

You're better off waiting till you're older and finding someone who shares the same interest and when you're at a better time in your life. The whole idea of dating is to find someone to settle down and have a family with, and unless you plan to buy a house and have children soon, I wouldn't bother. You sound like you just need some better friends to be honest.

How do I get enough confidence in myself? I am really shy to ask any girl out... I actually walk past them when I have the chance to talk to a girl... I am scared that I will make the wrong move and I also feel like I am going to mess up/don't know what she will say if I ask her if she has time to talk/if she wants to talk... I'm scared that she will say "no, your ugly and fat!", I don't want to be rejected in those exact words :'(... I am also shy/scared that the girl I like and I talk to her I know that I will show the sign that I have feelings for my crush and I don't want to show that I have feelings for her when her and I are talking :'(... also if you know what's the best way to impress a girl as well... reply this comment as a quote... I hope you really understand what I am going through...

Have you tried to talking to girls?

Yop wrote Have you tried to talking to girls?

Yes I have they just ignore me or just walk away while I'm talking :'(... also if you know a really fast/easier way I can get skinny in about 2-3 weeks??

In my opinion bud you should leave having a girlfriend at 14 because i made the mistake of having one, and i'm telling you it is great having a girlfriend but its too much stress at that age and you cant deal with it all at once because you have school and so much going on in your life. As someone said above girls change dramatically between the ages of 14-18.

Let me tel you something it doesn't make a difference if you are fat or not because the school i used to go to my best friend was kinda fat and he had one of the best looking GF in the school. It really doesn't matter what you look like sometimes, it can be a bonus to girls who are dickheads, and all they mostly do is try to play with your head but i'm telling you bud, just relax and enjoy your childhood because it disappears quicker than dust on a mountain.

Enjoy life because its too short to worry about a girl, you have your whole life for that.

Aqua_C27 wrote How do I get enough confidence in myself? I am really shy to ask any girl out... I actually walk past them when I have the chance to talk to a girl... I am scared that I will make the wrong move and I also feel like I am going to mess up/don't know what she will say if I ask her if she has time to talk/if she wants to talk... I'm scared that she will say "no, your ugly and fat!", I don't want to be rejected in those exact words :'(... I am also shy/scared that the girl I like and I talk to her I know that I will show the sign that I have feelings for my crush and I don't want to show that I have feelings for her when her and I are talking :'(... also if you know what's the best way to impress a girl as well... reply this comment as a quote... I hope you really understand what I am going through...

Aqua_C27 wrote If I could send you a pic of what I look like I would but only with your permission... and yes I am fat... do you know a fast/easy way I can get skinny? I will PM you my weight because I am not posting my weight on the post XD I hope you understand XD

It seems your problem isn't getting a girl, it's more to do with confidence issues.

Losing weight is very easy. However much you weigh, your body needs a certain amount of calories to keep that weight. If you eat more than this number of calories then you will gain weight and if you eat less then you will lose weight. It's fairly easy to find out how many calories your body needs, you can either just go with trial and error or use something like [ Register or Signin to view external links. ]

You basically just eat less calories than your body needs, thus it will burn fat to make up for the extra calories that you're not eating. Only consume a couple of hundred calories less than your body needs otherwise it will basically go into a survival state and use your muscle and fat as food which is not what you want. It's a marathon, not a sprint and it should take sometime to lose the extra fat if you're doing it correctly.

Just change up your diet, focus on exercising everyday and do well in school. You'll be confidient in your body and you'll be doing well in school so you'll be confident in your head.

Over where I am all people do is put a mail status on Facebook and mail any girl that likes it, sound stupid but it actually happens hahaha