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I'm a 15 year old Middle School student and alot of the guys at my school like to pick on me because of my size, Personality and lifestyle. Mainly because I don't fight back nor have an attitude. Some of my friends also think of me the same way they do. Another thing is that I don't know how to say no to people, what i'm trying to say is that, for example: (Random friend shows at my house) Hey James, can I come in? (I don't feel like having company, I wanna relax for the day, I don't want people at the house today) Me: Yea, sure, come in mate. I'm afraid of saying no at times, because of this some of my friends take advantage of me. I really need help. I want to deal with this now and get over with this. You guys are the only people I can count on, the TTG Community
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You just gotta do it, the only way to get ahead in life is to think about yourself
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I used to do the same thing but than I noticed that anger was building up inside of me from friends and other peers and I just said to hell with this and started getting angry and saying no I am just saying do not get to this point just do what your heart want and say no!
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As far as kids picking on you, put them in their place. I was always a fat pasty white nerdy kid who always got picked on. From 8th grade on it was a daily deal and I jumped through the schools hoops of "telling an adult" but it never helped. Finally when I switched schools I figured I had nothing to loose (I was at the old school visiting with friends). One of the bullies tried his crap on me again and I put him on the floor.
As far as saying no, you'll grow into it. Stop worrying about your image. The second you try to be mr.perfect is when people take advantage of you. If you don't want someone to come in the house, tell them no. Obviously don't just say no and slam the door but tell them you just don't feel like having company over. If you don't feel comfortable with that, blame it on someone. Don't say your mom is going to take you somewhere when she's not because it will be obvious you're not going anywhere. Tell them that you're expecting a call, or simply your mom just doesn't want anyone in the house for what ever reason.
As far as saying no, you'll grow into it. Stop worrying about your image. The second you try to be mr.perfect is when people take advantage of you. If you don't want someone to come in the house, tell them no. Obviously don't just say no and slam the door but tell them you just don't feel like having company over. If you don't feel comfortable with that, blame it on someone. Don't say your mom is going to take you somewhere when she's not because it will be obvious you're not going anywhere. Tell them that you're expecting a call, or simply your mom just doesn't want anyone in the house for what ever reason.
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Thank's for the help everyone. It really means alot to me.
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1. Stick up for yourself or they'll never leave you alone now i don't mean to go and hit someone just stand your ground but if they attack you feel free to fight back as you will be in the right for self defence.
2. I see where you are coming from im the same but sometimes you just gotta say no since you wont be the best company in the world if you cant be bothered.
2. I see where you are coming from im the same but sometimes you just gotta say no since you wont be the best company in the world if you cant be bothered.
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The height doesn't mean anything you can be small and stick up for yourself, it all depends how you're brought up in a way what you're today. People pick on your height becuase they look over you becuase you're in that position they can look down on you so they decide to be an idiot and pick on a smaller person which is you becuase you're short for your age, correct? Just be yourself blank them out and pretend you don't know them or you have spoken to them before. Be yourself and enjoy what you like doing and what you're best at as a person. It's good that you've brought up as having a good attitude becuase that would go into the deep end even more if you did have a attitude.
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