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Hey guys, so today i came out of a 10 month relationship with my girlfriend, i understand 10 months isn't that long really but she was my first proper relationship and my first real love, we've been arguing over silly things for the past 2-3 months, but we refused to let that get between us, we kept on trying and some days it would be fine others we'd argue again over something pathetic, eventually it's just got to much too handle, some bad things are getting said, and tears are both flowing from one another so i'm just here to ask the opinions of TTG and if they have had to deal with a break up what did you do to keep your mind off it? Cause i'm struggling right now
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I literally just got done with this situation lol but on a real note its hard brother just got to keep ur head up nothing really helped me other then work so i called her about a week later an we just talked it out an got closer from 1 another best advice i can give is try to indulge in ur hobbies an work as work is what keep my mind off her after a little while though man it will become less an less hard
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What hurts most man is that fact we argued over pointless stuff, if we didnt argue over rediculous things then we'd never argue
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I know what you mean man I had my love last year it is not easy to get out of the stump but it takes time you will get over it.
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Tell me about it like arguing over show she forced me to watch or arguing over what place is better something that should only be a small debate an state ur opinions would turn into a full blown argument
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It's silly mate, but when arguments started to get heated some bad things would get said, she accused me of cheating etc but i never, when she said that it felt like i'd been punched in the stomach
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I've had this same problem, me and my girlfriend argue a lot but you could do 4 Things
1. Put your pride away and let her win the arguments and give her that satisfaction.
2. Before you do anything just put yourself in her shoes. Ask would you like her to do that to you.
3. Talk it out and end the relationship but on good terms and become close friends
4. Just be a coward and give up.
1. Put your pride away and let her win the arguments and give her that satisfaction.
2. Before you do anything just put yourself in her shoes. Ask would you like her to do that to you.
3. Talk it out and end the relationship but on good terms and become close friends
4. Just be a coward and give up.
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I can quite happily say i have tried all 4 of them, but ending with number 4..
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Yea thats a woman go to finger pointer man look brother best bet honestly go get drunk or focus the attention u would be giving her onto something or someone else i know can be hard to think about shit i got like 6 hrs of sleep the whole first week me an josi broke up **** even tried getting myself shot up (didnt work as planned lol **** survival Instinct took over) just got to froce urself to get out an do something fun
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Ur not a coward man just anit the right 1 for u just keep ur head up an start fishing
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