Thanks for the reply Ref.

That's a tricky one mate, been in a similar situation myself. Asked her out and slowly we grew apart over the course of a year once she declined. Although we had been friends a long time I eventually moved on and as tough as it may be u will get over it at some point and find an interest in someone else, however if you feel the friendship is that good u don't want to tarnish it then pull her a side and tell her so. But at the same time it maybe better u know now there's no feelings in return rather than yours growing ever so more and being hurt more in the long run.

Don't really know if that's good advice but best I could do buddy, hope things work themselves out

That's pretty shitty man. I don't think there's anything you can do at this point other than respect her decision. There are lots of people out there who will appreciate you as well as the things you do. So, don't worry. If she isn't the one that can only mean that there is someone who is better for you overall. I'm sure it will all inevitably work out in your favor.

Move on. If she wasn't interested in you enough to date you in 3 years time, move on to someone who is. Sorry to be blunt/harsh, but that is just how it is.

Hate to say it man but you got friend zoned but on the good note its the end of that road


But on the real note the best thing to do is to find some new girl or other girls to talk to. When my ex and i broke up it took me 4-5 months to get over her and i did that by getting to know this other girl.


Getting under someone to get over someone may sound shitty but it works man

Honestly I would move on, sad as it must be but if she doesn't want to be more than friends, there's nothing you can do about it really. I'm sorry though.

You waited 3 years to get told that it will never happen, pretty much.

Move on, there are 7.4 billion people on the planet, statistically, half of them are women. There is bound to be someone out there for you. You just have to find her.

Did she say that she didn't want to be friends though? She said if you have feelings, then you need to move on. "Moving on" doesn't necessarily mean you move on from them as friends. Just understand that she isn't interested in anything more than friendship, and you need to take those feelings and move them to someone else. Sounds pretty fair. While I understand rejection hurts, I wouldn't let that ruin the friendship. If someone couldn't stay friends with someone after that, then I really doubt the relationship could have lasted if it came to be. Maybe I am wrong about that, but I just feel the friendship is more important than the relationship. Friendship is the foundation.