As of right now, I believe the xbox one is in the lead for a better console than the ps4. I'm not an "xbox fanboy" either. I actually believe the PS3 is better than the 360, but currently the xbox one offers a lot more than the ps4. Others may say the ps4 has "better graphics", "more RAM", etc, but these are all slight differences that you would not notice.

But personally, I would go to the console which has the majority of your friends. Or if you're like me and don't have friends, just choose the console with the games you like the best.