Height doesnt really matter, but i like when they're shorter than me but not too short.

You're missing his point. He is talking about being in love with someone. You're talking about "liking" them.

The big difference here is "liking" someone is usually in highschool and who you date can impact who you talk to.

Being in love with someone should NEVER have you questioning why you're with that person, if they're skin and bones, or over 300pounds. It is not just about their personality, there are millions of factors that go into why someone loves someone else. Don't limit it such as "If you don't love them because of their appearance than it must be because of their personality."

I Dislike a girl being taller then me but that wouldn't be the reason Ill break up with a girl.

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Prohibit wrote I disagree.

Someone can love someone purely on their personality yes.

But others can love people based on both their looks and personality.

I wouldn't want to go out with a tall girl because I wouldn't feel comfortable, I just don't like it. Nor would I want to go out with someone that clearly doesn't have the best of looks, (I don't mean the person has to be amazing with super model looks I mean like if they have crappy teeth, smell etc.)

So that's my take on it.

I never said to date someone based on their personality. Height, race, gender, weight, shape etc do not matter. If someone doesn't want to date someone because they're taller than you'd like, that's fine, but it doesn't really mean that height matters. Not being emotionally interested in someone for any reason is fine, that's your personal opinion and it's fine.

If a guy doesn't want to date a girl because she's too fat, or skinny, that's fine, because he's not attracted to her. If he makes fun of her because she's too fat/skinny/whatever, then he's a dick.

Well you said:

"What really matters in a relationship is that you're with someone you love, and can get along with,regardless" of their age, race bla bla bla

I didn't think we was talking about a guy bullying them for how they look, yeah of course that's not acceptable.

You just made it seem like you was cancelling out all physical things and focusing on personality.

I'm just stating that sometimes people's features, age, size counts towards weather someone could really like them or not.

You're missing his point. He is talking about being in love with someone. You're talking about "liking" them.

The big difference here is "liking" someone is usually in highschool and who you date can impact who you talk to.

Being in love with someone should NEVER have you questioning why you're with that person, if they're skin and bones, or over 300pounds. It is not just about their personality, there are millions of factors that go into why someone loves someone else. Don't limit it such as "If you don't love them because of their appearance than it must be because of their personality."

You just said the point I was trying to make "It is not just about their personality, there are millions of factors that go into why someone loves someone else."
I think people are missing my point.

hight doesnt matter if the girl thinks it does shes an idiot unless you dont like to be smaller then the girl but if hight doesnt matter in life it doesnt matter in relationship

I don't think it matters really, as long as you're both human

I personally wouldn't want to be shorter than my girl but if its by a small bit I probs wouldn't mind. But idealy I want it to be the same height or a bit shorter.

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I'd hate to be smaller than the girl in the relationship lol.

Idk though. Depends on what the girl thinks

same i'm a lot taller than my girlfriend !!

I think height doesn't matter as long as you love them and they love you.