Man, if you really really like this girl show her.
Show her that you love her.
Ask if you can go to the park with her and her daughter and buy them an ice cream. Kids love ice cream.
When she see's that you enjoy spending time with her maybe something will happen ;)

Okay Gru I understand where your coming from but you couldn't be more wrong i'm sorry, I don't need to grow up at all. It's hard for to you understand when your not experiencing it at all. Like i'm not trying to be rude or anything but being so young and having so much I can do, its not as easy as you may think

Daniel_Kiing wrote

Hey everyone, I am a 18 year old guy who has finished school and is currently not working ( Besides Youtube ). I always use to talk to this girl a few years back until her family moved away, we were really good friends etc... ( BLAH BLAH, Don't wanna bore you guys ). She has recently moved close again and we started talking like we use to, but one MAJOR thing has changed...

She has a daughter, I really like her and enjoy talking to her but the though of her being a mother is constantly in the back of my head when we talk. I only really want advice from older people on here, for example 18+ ( No offence to anyone else but generally the older you are the more you have been through and the more experience you have ) Thanks

P.S - Sorry for how long this is

I've been with women that have kids a couple times and if your young and you still have things you want to experience in life do that first. Think of it like this are you ready to have a kid of your own because if your serious about this girl you will have to treat the kid like your own or it will cause static between all of you. It's hard raising kids that aren't yours because there's always that thought in the back of your mind that it's not your child. If your not serious about the girl yet if it was me and I was young like you honestly I would just move on but good luck with whatever you decide

Thanks everyone, and I dont know what will happen, only time will tell!

If you feel a certain way about her then her having a daughter shouldn't matter. Your gonna either have to get used to it or go the other way of it.

I got with my girlfriend when we was 16 and she had just had a child, I can honestly say I have no regrets, It seemed scary at first and it was a challenge but I found that it was never ever a problem, she was aware it was a big deal o me and never forced anything to 'be', now I am proud to have stepped up when her childs father never, and he sees me as his dad, which is fine... I grew up and matured in a small amount of time and ITs only helped me .. I managed to get a decent paying job and I cared about more things than myself..IF YOU LIKE HER GO FOR IT!!!!!!!

Daniel_Kiing wrote Okay Gru I understand where your coming from but you couldn't be more wrong i'm sorry, I don't need to grow up at all. It's hard for to you understand when your not experiencing it at all. Like i'm not trying to be rude or anything but being so young and having so much I can do, its not as easy as you may think

I didnt mean "grow up" in a bad way. It just kinda came out wrong man, but I have been there thats where you're wrong.. It didnt turn out good in the end and not because of the kid but because of the the kids father. But if you really do like her like you say you do then just tell her how you feel but make sure you word it just the right way and dont put your foot in your mouth, give it a shot and see where it goes. Yes you are young but having a kid isnt always the worst thing. It will also make you open up your eyes and see how life is going to be when you get older also. Just try it and see where it goes man!

If you really like her then you'll get over it, time will tell though, bit of advice, don't rush it man.

Daniel_Kiing wrote

Hey everyone, I am a 18 year old guy who has finished school and is currently not working ( Besides Youtube ). I always use to talk to this girl a few years back until her family moved away, we were really good friends etc... ( BLAH BLAH, Don't wanna bore you guys ). She has recently moved close again and we started talking like we use to, but one MAJOR thing has changed...

She has a daughter, I really like her and enjoy talking to her but the though of her being a mother is constantly in the back of my head when we talk. I only really want advice from older people on here, for example 18+ ( No offence to anyone else but generally the older you are the more you have been through and the more experience you have ) Thanks

P.S - Sorry for how long this is

my advice to you lad would be to give it a go if that's what you want don't let the fact she's a mother get in the way because if you pass up the opportunity you might not get another chance mate

Same thing happened to me but now we don't speak at all an tbf I hate that we don't an wish I could go back an do it different but... Yanno its life