I'm 16 but I have a piece of advice for you..

If you do really love her, shouldn't you love her unconditionally? Regardless of the fact she has a child?

No hate btw.

Ah, that's a tricky one. I know what uou mean when you say that keeps popping up in your mind . I have a gorgeous friend that we use to chat and stuff (she's older by 4 years, 22 yo) and she has a kid and when we use to chat I use to get almost turned off by the thought of it and angered by the thought of her having a baby with another guy; but I have jealousy issues lol.

All in all you have to know if you could deal with it, is she worth all it to you or not.

Well, do you think your ready for a kid yet?
Seriously. Your 18, I highly doubt you would want a kid. Enjoy life, go travel. explore places.
(Unless her daughter is hot, then date her!)

I'm 18.
Although never being in a situation where I've liked some one with a kid, j don't think I could do it. Being 18 and being sort of a father to a kid sounds daunting and not something I would want to do.

Although I would happily give it a go! I say try it.

flaaws wrote Well, do you think your ready for a kid yet?
Seriously. Your 18, I highly doubt you would want a kid. Enjoy life, go travel. explore places.
(Unless her daughter is hot, then date her!)

HAHA! The daughter would only be like 1-3 years old.

Don't mess your life up getting in a relationship with a girl who messed up hers. You're so young and the last thing you need is dealing with a kid my friend. Be her friend and forget dating her unless you think you can take care of both. I doubt that though.

Thanks for all the advice people, help a lot and means heaps that you gave the time to give your input

But I don't want to date her or anything due to this. Thanks Again!

So you really like her but since she has a kid your gonna JUDGE her and not date her bc of it?
Sounds like you need to grow up a little bit?
I'm only 18 but I think about life in a different way, if you like her and you wanna be with her then go for it. So what she has a kid, it could be a good thing for the both of you to grow closer. Or it could show you that you guys aren't meant to be together. She could have made a "Mistake" and if she did then forget about her mistake and look past it.
If it wasn't a "Mistake" then good for her. Just give her and yourself a chance and it could turn out to be a great thing and it could be a bad thing!
But stop judging and go with!
Everybody deserves a chance man!

Im 17 but oh well haha...As everyone has said, if you really like this girl and she has the same feelings towards you then just go for it, she might want to try it out with you but is worried about what your input is about the kid. she might like you but is scared you dont wanna date because of the kid. If you be honest with her then im sure things will go to plan. And if it does work out then just support her, im not saying be the kids dad but support them both in any way possible and the kid may soon look up to you and you'll have a great relationship