illume wrote I hate it actually, it puts us skinny blokes in bad place, not just larger people..

Skinny people like myself struggle to put on weight so we cannot gain 'sick abs', whereas larger people (although difficult) have the capability to make some nice muscle/abs. No matter how much we eat, we remain skinny. Even with 6 packs, we get the "oh your skinny it doesn't matter" yes, it matters to us!!

Yep everyone wants what they don't have. What I take for granted is a struggle for you. At the point you say screw it, who am I trying to impress? And you realize that list is very short, then you look at why you are trying to impress them. You suddenly don't care. Me personally, I hate it when I go up to hug someone REALLY sexy and hit a mirror. It kinda sucks.