My girlfriend and I have been dating 6 months now. She's white and I'm black.. Throwing that out there for clarity purposes in the story to come. She recently told her step father who has raised her and her sister since the age of 8 (she's 19 now) and he went ballistic. Maybe for the best, but she will not tell me all that he has said to her about us and what he thinks on the situation but she has filled me in that he punched a hole in the wall. The next morning after that he threatened her mother with a divorce if her daughter didn't leave me. Mind you all. He simply only knows my skin color and my name... Speaking of my name he found me on Facebook and sent a couple of messages to me about the situation. Sufficed to say, they weren't G rated. Now three days later after ignoring the mother and my girlfriend he leaves a note on the kitchen table before going off to work, presumably a klan rally at this point, with things written down such as tuition, car note, insurance, phone bill and a few others followed by "if you don't leave that n*****... These are all gone."
She text me saying after she talks to him tonight we have to talk. I already know that she won't choose me over stability.. Am I a bad person for praying that she does?.. She can attend a junior college, take out a student loan to pay for it and I've offered her free shelter in my apartment. But she's too dependent on his money.. And she's in love with me and I her but that isn't going to change her forthcoming decision. I'm currently sitting at working balling my eyes out over her.. But I know there's nothing I can do and the things I say will only make it harder for her. I wonder if he'd be ok if she dated an abusive, heroine addict with less of an education but as long as he's white, it's ok. I can't believe people still think supremacy exists.. My heart is seriously broken. Yes by her but also but humanity.