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Okay so here it is. I've absolutely adored this girl for like a year now. She is kind, funny, athletic, plays all the same sports as me, is my best friend, and is my type. The only problem is she has a boyfriend. He is like one of my best friends but he is really a bad boyfriend. Not abusive or mean but he never hangs out with her and they've been dating a year and haven't even kissed. I don't know what to do. This chick is like the perfect person for me. Any help or tips. I don't want to sabotage their relationship but idk what to do.


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-REL- wrote Okay so here it is. I've absolutely adored this girl for like a year now. She is kind, funny, athletic, plays all the same sports as me, is my best friend, and is my type. The only problem is she has a boyfriend. He is like one of my best friends but he is really a bad boyfriend. Not abusive or mean but he never hangs out with her and they've been dating a year and haven't even kissed. I don't know what to do. This chick is like the perfect person for me. Any help or tips. I don't want to sabotage their relationship but idk what to do.
tell her exactly what you think and she will understand.
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-REL- wrote Okay so here it is. I've absolutely adored this girl for like a year now. She is kind, funny, athletic, plays all the same sports as me, is my best friend, and is my type. The only problem is she has a boyfriend. He is like one of my best friends but he is really a bad boyfriend. Not abusive or mean but he never hangs out with her and they've been dating a year and haven't even kissed. I don't know what to do. This chick is like the perfect person for me. Any help or tips. I don't want to sabotage their relationship but idk what to do.
tell her exactly what you think and she will understand.



Agree Just let her know how you feel, tell her you like her!
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Truthfully in my opinion, accept the fact that she is with him. If they've been together for a year+ and are still together obviously he is doing something right.
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AsafBorger wrote Truthfully in my opinion, accept the fact that she is with him. If they've been together for a year+ and are still together obviously he is doing something right.

When I talk to her about how he kinda avoides her, she agrees. She knows that he is not the greatest boyfriend but she is just too nice to break his heart.
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-REL- wrote Okay so here it is. I've absolutely adored this girl for like a year now. She is kind, funny, athletic, plays all the same sports as me, is my best friend, and is my type. The only problem is she has a boyfriend. He is like one of my best friends but he is really a bad boyfriend. Not abusive or mean but he never hangs out with her and they've been dating a year and haven't even kissed. I don't know what to do. This chick is like the perfect person for me. Any help or tips. I don't want to sabotage their relationship but idk what to do.
tell her exactly what you think and she will understand.



Agree Just let her know how you feel, tell her you like her!
Okay, I may try this. Thank you.
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Mine_Turtle wrote
lPHDFlopperl wrote
-REL- wrote Okay so here it is. I've absolutely adored this girl for like a year now. She is kind, funny, athletic, plays all the same sports as me, is my best friend, and is my type. The only problem is she has a boyfriend. He is like one of my best friends but he is really a bad boyfriend. Not abusive or mean but he never hangs out with her and they've been dating a year and haven't even kissed. I don't know what to do. This chick is like the perfect person for me. Any help or tips. I don't want to sabotage their relationship but idk what to do.
tell her exactly what you think and she will understand.



Agree Just let her know how you feel, tell her you like her!
Okay, I may try this. Thank you.
no problem! Good luck mate ;D
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AsafBorger wrote Truthfully in my opinion, accept the fact that she is with him. If they've been together for a year+ and are still together obviously he is doing something right.

When I talk to her about how he kinda avoides her, she agrees. She knows that he is not the greatest boyfriend but she is just too nice to break his heart.


Well that changes everything. You should just tell her how you feel then. Your friend probably isn't going to like you anymore though. I've kind of had to do this before but it turned out bad lol. I was texting this chick (for like a month) and we we're like always talking. Well she had a boyfriend right and I indirectly got her to break up with him and I was all like "allllllriiiighhht ;)". Well then like a day later she was with someone else lol so I was like WTF. But yeah, tell her how you feel haha
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AsafBorger wrote
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AsafBorger wrote Truthfully in my opinion, accept the fact that she is with him. If they've been together for a year+ and are still together obviously he is doing something right.

When I talk to her about how he kinda avoides her, she agrees. She knows that he is not the greatest boyfriend but she is just too nice to break his heart.


Well that changes everything. You should just tell her how you feel then. Your friend probably isn't going to like you anymore though. I've kind of had to do this before but it turned out bad lol. I was texting this chick (for like a month) and we we're like always talking. Well she had a boyfriend right and I indirectly got her to break up with him and I was all like "allllllriiiighhht ;)". Well then like a day later she was with someone else lol so I was like WTF. But yeah, tell her how you feel haha

Okay, yeah. I hope you can see this is kind of a tough situation. Haha, idk I don't want my friend to hate me either. This sucks.
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-REL- wrote Okay so here it is. I've absolutely adored this girl for like a year now. She is kind, funny, athletic, plays all the same sports as me, is my best friend, and is my type. The only problem is she has a boyfriend. He is like one of my best friends but he is really a bad boyfriend. Not abusive or mean but he never hangs out with her and they've been dating a year and haven't even kissed. I don't know what to do. This chick is like the perfect person for me. Any help or tips. I don't want to sabotage their relationship but idk what to do.
Tell her how you feel face to face or on the phone dont text her.
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