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Hello all. Let's see what you guys think.
I'm 17 years old and when I was younger I got bullied quite frequently. I didn't really try to stand up for myself because I was so scared of getting hurt. It seemed like everywhere I moved, no matter what, there was another bully I had to deal with. This happened up until I was about 13 or 14 I believe. So, here I am now, sticking up for myself. Or trying atleast. The real problem here is that after telling someone off for being a jerk, I start like having flashbacks of when I was younger. This only happens when I feel like I'm about to get in a fight. I start to shake and my hands get sweaty. Almost like I'm scared I guess. I've never been in a single fight in my life. Honestly I think if I did, I would go crazy and hurt someone more than I intended to. I feel like I wouldn't stop. I'm 6'2" now and my reach could dismantle someone. I just don't know.
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I'm 17 years old and when I was younger I got bullied quite frequently. I didn't really try to stand up for myself because I was so scared of getting hurt. It seemed like everywhere I moved, no matter what, there was another bully I had to deal with. This happened up until I was about 13 or 14 I believe. So, here I am now, sticking up for myself. Or trying atleast. The real problem here is that after telling someone off for being a jerk, I start like having flashbacks of when I was younger. This only happens when I feel like I'm about to get in a fight. I start to shake and my hands get sweaty. Almost like I'm scared I guess. I've never been in a single fight in my life. Honestly I think if I did, I would go crazy and hurt someone more than I intended to. I feel like I wouldn't stop. I'm 6'2" now and my reach could dismantle someone. I just don't know.
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well i am about 6"2 and when some comes at me i dont back down you just need to block your mind cuase you need to defend you self so dont feal bad if you ruin the kid cuase where i used to live it was a hard neighbor hood so i was always getting a fights and shit once a kid almost hit me in the head with a skate board :/
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Just because your so big doesn't mean that your hard lol. Im only 5'6 and i have battered a few people that want to fight me. But at the other hand ive been beat up before aswell. Its not he fact that your scared its just 'adjrenalin' (dunno how to spell that) rushing through your body, even the worlds strongest person would get it if they was about to have a fight. Myself ive never really been bullied but if someone trys to you just give them a smack in the mouth and stick up for yourself! ;)
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Im all for defending yourself but a physical altercation isn't always the answer. I was bullied as a kid for being short (im 17 and only 5'6) and it really bothered me then but then as I got older I realized theirs nothing I can do about my height so why stress it? Bullies bully other people because they are insecure with themselves and sometimes feel like its easier to make friends by picking on someone weaker then them. Just dont stress it your 17 just enjoy yout life and don't let the bullies get to you because when you do your giving them exactly what they want. Hope I helped.
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just walk away if u feel like stomping someones face in
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DanesxD wrote well i am about 6"2 and when some comes at me i dont back down you just need to block your mind cuase you need to defend you self so dont feal bad if you ruin the kid cuase where i used to live it was a hard neighbor hood so i was always getting a fights and **** once a kid almost hit me in the head with a skate board :/i have had a skateboard thrown at me it didnt feel to good.
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