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I'm Still Kinda Shy About This
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A couple of weeks ago I posted about that I was going for my first date with a girl I met (Im 18) that went well and she has came over a couple of times and we just have cuddled and made out but we haven't gone any further. This is my first girlfriend and I have been shy my whole life. But I told her today that I am getting more comfortable with her. I'm super F*cking nervous about sex and I dont know if she is ready. Should I ask her if she is comfortable for that? She said I had kinda had a shy vibe when I was with her today. I told her give me a couple days and I will be ok and I will ya know not be as shy.
What do you guys think?
What do you guys think?
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Just go with the flow man, it'll work out
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Being shy is never a bad thing. But if you're too shy to be around her, you def are not ready to do the dirty.
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If you are shy around her, then you are definitely not ready. Just keep the things the way they are and it will happen naturally
Best of luck
Best of luck
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Usually sex will just happen. You dont need to plan ahead. If you guys are just hanging out and start making out and if it seems like it will progress from there then it will happen. Trust me just go with the flow
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Hey we've all been shy at this kinda stage don't be embarrassed,It will happen when it happens relationships aren't just about sex my friend makin her happy is I'm not talking in the bedroom when I say that too.
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Just try your hardest not to be shy. Time will help. I'd let it go for a bit before you worry about plugging the chick. Just spend more time with her and get to know her. Let her do the same, etc.
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you're only young man, don't worry about being shy at all!! some girls adore it! But for me sex is a very significant part of a relationship and it's something that i leave a little later once I've really made a connection with someone on an emotional and physical level. Just sit her down one day and discuss it. It will happen at it's own pace when you feel comfortable enough around her. Good luck man
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If you have to ask about sex on a technology based website, I really feel like you're not going to be ready for sex.
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If you're nervous when it comes to sex, that is a hell no as your performance would be terrible. I wouldn't even ask her about it. It'll just come as the mood settles in. Don't understand why you're shy around her still. Seems you lack the confidence for whatever reason.
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