coreyjkl wrote you need to purchase a stealth server like XBLSE aswell.
You can buy 24 hours which is $20.
This will keep your console online for 24 hours normally without ban.
I dont recommend going online without stealth as your KV could be instantly banned.
There are different servers you can use, XBLSE, XeLiveHive , DarkLive server , Sawyer etc.

Coreyjkl

I believe sawyer is not around anymore do to the recent dashboard update.