Listen to me, this is coming from a huge goof ball who has never been in a relationship his whole life, I met a girl on my senior trip and we hit it off, I was just being myself because I taught myself that, if she doesnt like the real you then she wont like you. You've got to be yourself, they key to a girl is laughter, if you can make them laugh and get out that beautiful smile of theirs, then you've got them. Be a gentleman (open doors, even car doors, go get the car for her in the rain, carry her groceries, KISS HER ON THE FOREHEAD) I can happily say I've been with my girlfriend 8 months tomorrow and she is extrememly out of my so called "league". Girls would much rather have a goof ball guy who can make them laugh and is always fun who is about a 7 rather then a guy with a ugly personality who is a 10.

Moral of this. BE YOURSELF.

Well your rant says you don't want people going for looks, yet you want a girl with good looks and your ideal body.

Humans are hard wired to reproduce and the most stimulating todo so are attractive people. so is it really any surprise you see good looking girls go for good looking guys?

It's because the world is superficial but I can't judge because I would sound like a hypocrite.

Yep, I mostly look for personality in a girl. It's kinda stupid what the world has came to.

Here's something you need to know, girls would go for you if you showed them you had something to offer. Sitting back and complaining won't get you anywhere, you've got to put yourself out there.

I bet all the 'good looking' guys that get all the girls show them they've something to give, even if it's something stupid, that's why they're getting all the attention from girls.

Until you put yourself out, I guarantee you're going to witness all the 'good looking' guys get the girls. It'll stay that way unless you make it change.

This really annoys me too.

I cannot count how many girls i have had to help because their boyfriend cheated on them.

The time will come. She will come.

Another thing that frustrates is me that the men do the same to girls. Both sex's are as bad as each other.

What you are ranting about is what i have experienced in the past. She got cheated and messed around with. Then they have the cheek to say all boys are bad just because they have gone for the wrong people and not using her head.

Also it has gotten to a stage where looks do not mean everything. I want some that is on the same wave level as me with looks.I have been out with good looking girls in the past and i always feel lost. Also people looking at me thinking how the hell did he get her. Maybe because i am caring and i know how to treat a girl. Not saying i am perfect though.

I would like to see some opinions of the other sex, to see what they have to say. I am pretty sure there are some girl on this site.

Great rant though. Got what i wanted to say off my chest.

I don't disagree with this at all. I hate girls that only go for looks. But than again your talking about a society where 11 year old girls look like there 20-21 years of age. Atleast my town looks like that. When I go for a girl the last thing I want is looks, because looks won't make me happy, there personality is what I go for. Make me smile, laugh, talk about things endlessly and vice versa. It's sad that people only go for looks, but it's their choice.