Deq wrote Remember dude,
you guys broke up for a reason

The reason is to complicated to explain mate yous wouldnt understand what i ment if i was to type it out for yous lol

Will you care for that child like it's your own?
Will you look at her any differently because she has a child?

If you answered no to the first one and/or yes to the second one.

No, don't get back with her, if you're prepared to get back with her, but not care for that child. That relationship will not work and will just be unhealthy.

Likewise, if you would care for that child like it's your own, but you see your "ex" or "current" girlfriend differently because of a child. It won't work.

It's a big decision you'll have to make on getting back with her, a decision I don't think you should base off a bunch of 13 year old gamers.

Go for it, child or not, it shouldn't be a big problem

She probably just wants you to pay for the baby shit, clothes, bottles, etc lol.

Only joking, but like others said, sh'es your ex for a reason, you'll find someone else you'll like, like Discern said, plenty more fish in the sea!

Kunta wrote Will you care for that child like it's your own?
Will you look at her any differently because she has a child?

If you answered no to the first one and/or yes to the second one.

No, don't get back with her, if you're prepared to get back with her, but not care for that child. That relationship will not work and will just be unhealthy.

Likewise, if you would care for that child like it's your own, but you see your "ex" or "current" girlfriend differently because of a child. It won't work.

It's a big decision you'll have to make on getting back with her, a decision I don't think you should base off a bunch of 13 year old gamers.

Trust me i know there's alot of kids on this site and that why im reading all the feedback at the end of the day im making the decision not the 13 year old gamer i just wanted some opinions

Hurleh wrote

Depends how you really feel about a kid and your feeling for her, but tbh she's your ex like I'd probably move on and try forget about her, sounds harsh but its probably best

Yous dont understand d situation completely the fact that she is my ex mean nothing she is my ex for a very stupid reason that me and her shouldnt have let happen

Kunta wrote Will you care for that child like it's your own?
Will you look at her any differently because she has a child?

If you answered no to the first one and/or yes to the second one.

No, don't get back with her, if you're prepared to get back with her, but not care for that child. That relationship will not work and will just be unhealthy.

Likewise, if you would care for that child like it's your own, but you see your "ex" or "current" girlfriend differently because of a child. It won't work.

It's a big decision you'll have to make on getting back with her, a decision I don't think you should base off a bunch of 13 year old gamers.

Ive changed my mind your write im getting advice from people who havent a clue about women at all

My cousin actually went through the same exact thing with his current girlfriend. They dated a few years ago and went separate ways, now he's actually engaged to her and she has a two year old son which is not his. He didn't mind, he still loves her and that's all it took for him.

As I said, they're now engaged and are getting married in July. Her son also calls my cousin dad, which I think he actually likes. They're a happy family, the child didn't have a negative impact at all.

Don't let something ruin your chances for happiness, your choices affect your life.

TayIor wrote My cousin actually went through the same exact thing with his current girlfriend. They dated a few years ago and went separate ways, now he's actually engaged to her and she has a two year old son which is not his. He didn't mind, he still loves her and that's all it took for him.

As I said, they're now engaged and are getting married in July. Her son also calls my cousin dad, which I think he actually likes. They're a happy family, the child didn't have a negative impact at all.

Don't let something ruin your chances for happiness, your choices affect your life.

Best feed back so far mate thanks alot