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Situation with my ex??? What would yous do
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So ive started talking to an ex girlfriend from a few years back n we have just clicked again the only thing is she has a child now! I not really sure what on earth im supposed to do as it is someone else's child but i did love here and old felling's have came back up.

What is your views on this matter?

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Listen, don't let a child stop you dude. A lot of people on here will tell you if you to stay away. Do what you want, dating a girl with a child isn't too bad. I did for a long time, just have to watch out for baby daddy.
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That can be a tuff one bro. Kids can make things interesting sometimes But it never hurts to give it a try.
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take it slow man, once you go back or into a relationship with a child in play it makes a difference. That child will look up to you as a Father figure 8 out of 10 times. you need to step back and ask yourself are you ready to commit to the woman and the child both. She may say you dont have to worry about the child because its not your but if your gonna be int her life that child might as well be yours...

best luck with your situation brother!
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Madness it is like i never thought i would even consider it like
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She's your ex for a reason. It's time to move on with your life. You'll find yourself going in circles if you continue to love someone, that might not feel the same way back or has concerns.

Plenty of fish in the sea. It's your job to catch the right one.
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this is a good situation tbh... just stay with her if you want her if you just put up with the child she will see much more in you will be all worth it
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Look man just do what you think is right for you I mean it makes it a lot harder knowing the kids not yours but if you want to be with her then go for it ;)
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Remember dude,
you guys broke up for a reason
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She may be your ex. But she is also another human being with feelings. Don't go there again if you don't feel you want to. But it takes a proper father to raise another man's child! So just remember that bud. Just think of the child as your own, treat as your own and love like your own. And you should be fine.
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