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Should your significant other be cool with your friends?
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So a while back i was talking with my friends about relationships. I heard a lyric by Post Malone that says "Your not even speaken to my friends no, you knew all my uncles and my aunts tho". And i asked them if your girlfriend/boyfriend should be cool with your friends. Not meaning they hang with them, but in the sense that if your friend was with you and your significant other they could be in conversation and having a good time. Surprisingly a lot of my friends said no. I think yes. My reasoning is because you spend a lot of time with your friends and your significant other should be able to at least like them enough to talk to them. Whats your thoughts on this?

Side note/story:

My friends ex-girlfriend hated my guts but would still be okay with hanging with me when they were together and would come over my house. Even though it was fake she still made an effort to try and hide it. Her reasoning for hating me was because i brought the "bad side" out in my friend. Meaning he would act different when he was around me, as if i could control how he acted lmao. But me and her are pretty cool now.

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Maze (06-23-2018)
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Yes i think for both relationships to keep going they do need to be otherwise you would have to chose between them and either lose an SO or a good friend.

This is like asking if your friends should be able to hang together like that, if they really cared about you they can endure someone they dont much like for the sake of you.
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I think it's totally reasonable. In a loving and trusting relationship there's no reason why not. I've been with my girlfriend for 6 years, and I love when she meets friends(and family) that I've known for a long time.
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"But me and her are pretty cool now"

because your the reason she's your friends ex

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She should be in my opinion, like fair enough if it causes drama then they shouldn't be friends but if there's no drama between the two then yeah she should be cool bc this will lead to a bigger friendship group and can make better nights out
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