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long story short ive talked to this girl and realized shes a hoe (and found out lOl)

when i tried leaving her she begged me to stay and sent me paragraphs saying how sorry she was etc etc, she also went at her wrists with a razor blade or something idunno but she was cutting herself and breaking shit. now i tried putting the past behind me again (because she banged some guy) and it just aint working. shes talking to so many different guys and who even knows if im her top priority. i wanna leave her but idk how to. i was thinking about talking to her tomorrow but i dont wanna leave her at the same time because i dont want her to harm herself and a lot of people would get mad at me. idk what to do, you think if i ask her she will give me truthful answers? think she'll go crazy if we have a formal talk about what to do?

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assailin wrotelong story short ive talked to this girl and realized shes a hoe (and found out lOl)

when i tried leaving her she begged me to stay and sent me paragraphs saying how sorry she was etc etc, she also went at her wrists with a razor blade or something idunno but she was cutting herself and breaking shit. now i tried putting the past behind me again (because she banged some guy) and it just aint working. shes talking to so many different guys and who even knows if im her top priority. i wanna leave her but idk how to. i was thinking about talking to her tomorrow but i dont wanna leave her at the same time because i dont want her to harm herself and a lot of people would get mad at me. idk what to do, you think if i ask her she will give me truthful answers? think she'll go crazy if we have a formal talk about what to do?



***** just drop that hoe, don't be worried about the NxCCa cutting. Only babies do that shit.
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dude why are you still wasting your time with this girl after the last post u made about her smh.
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You can't be forced to date her. If she is threatening to self harm. Send her a support number and move on. That is not on you if she hurts herself. Especially if it's her fault that you're leaving.

Don't stay in a relationship that you don't want to be in.
And if she truly cared for you she wouldn't threaten to self harm and leave you in that situation.


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I would agree with others on this one. Don't force yourself to be with a hoe.
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I would honestly leave her, she can't do anymore damage to herself than she's done to you.
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tell her parents and get her help then leave. Sounds like shes just trying to manipulate you she sounds like a sociopath
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You're not responsible for her self-harm or her feeling bad after you stop talking to her. You're responsible for your own peace and stability, I know you may feel terrible about her self-harm but it really isn't your fault and you shouldn't feel bad because you don't wish to be with her.

If she does talk to several men at the same time, she'll probably do this self-harm the first day, to try to convince you to stay, and then the next day she'll just move on (probably). I see no reason for you to stay in something so toxic if you don't want to be in it.
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My man first of all, you care about her that's good but if she cutting, that was the key to exit right then. If she did you wrong once and you was doing right then leave. I'd block her # and on every social media and stop talking to her in person period. Your a strong person to still think about being with her after she was throwing her goods all around. Just leave man, you'll be straight.
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That's when it's time to cut someone off.
She's toxic and manipulative.
If she cuts herself, 'she' cut 'herself', you did nothing.

Drop her, block her on social media/phone #, and ignore.
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