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Madam wrote
JeremiahCheesedanish wrote Falling for someone doesn't mean you're not friends. Taking it farther than feelings is becoming something other than just "friends".


True. It's a reality that relationships start off as friendships but it's not that EVERY friendship will eventually end up being a relationship. There can be friendships that are just that... Friendships.


My fiance and I started off just being friends. We worked together a lot and just became very good friends. She had a boyfriend at the time, but I eventually fell very hard for her. Her and the guy she was seeing at the time started to fight a bit, so I told her everything, about how I felt about her at the time. She ended it with him and I took a shot. Now, we're engaged.

There's nothing wrong with falling for a friend. Especially if you think there's a chance it will work out. If you're scared it will ruin the friendship, don't do anything about it. If you think there's a chance it could all work out, go for it. Taking a chance on a friend was the best thing I could have ever done with my life.


"A guy and a girl can be just friends, but at one point or another, they will fall for each other... Maybe temporarily, maybe at the wrong time, maybe too late, or maybe forever." - Dave Matthews Band
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I think yes, if they are not attracted to each other..
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Not at all, it may seem like it but it never lasts, I was in the awkward situation a few years back and not spoke to that girl since
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I say yes. I got like 5 or 6 best friends that are girls. We stay up late talking and what not. Sometimes hangout. Hoping that none of them start falling in love. All my guy friends think we all more than friends. Just don't let them get to you. Stay friends, who cares what they think. If you show that you are getting mad then they will think like yea they more than friends
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Yes I don't have many though as my GF would also no likey.

fuk dem all da time
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I was just friends w/ my girl now we smash all the time ;) answer: No, you have to reproduce.
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Yes, why can't they be? People that believe that likely only hang out with women for sex and nothing else.
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100%. I'm friends with quite a few girls but we never end up dating. In fairness I always stay away from relationships because my job complicates a lot of things lol.
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Yes.

I have girls that are friends and neither of us wish to pursue a romantic relationship.
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it depends on the guy & girl tbh.
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