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X-23 wrote "Give her space", is bullshit. That's the absolute worst thing you can do right now. You give her space and before you know it, you find out she's cheating on you, and you'll be devastated.

I'm going to be honest, with the way you're describing her recent actions, there's already another guy. The best thing you can do is man up, tell her how you feel, and end it. You'll recover faster doing this, I promise you. Staying in a soon to be shit show like this will only hurt you more, you'll basically be torutring yourself.

Don't stay with her because you feel "she's the one" or "there's no one like her". You're damn right there's no one like her, in fact, there are thousands that are better.


at least he will know who she really is, if he gives her space and she does that ?


I guess I'm the only guy who doesn't get hung up on drama and women.

I dissconnect from people very easily, most people can't do that. I gave him my adivce, if he uses it, good. If he doesn't, that's okay too.

What I said could be the complete truth, some people handle that.


I understand I'm the same just not when it comes to someone I'm close to, it can hurt a lot, so you don't know how it's really feeling it's not give us much information to jump to the conclusion that she's cheating, that's wrong in my opinion it may be true.. but it's not confirmed and him waiting to see how things go before he decides, is a lot better than breaking up with her when he clearly has a strong bond, her " letting him know " and it may hurt him a lot more than he is now, but he'll now who she is as a person, he's asking for advice, not someone to decide his fate.


So with that logic, you'd rather be hurt more, rather than as little pain as possible? Because that's exactly where "seeing/know what type of person she is" will take you.

Leaving or loosing anyone you've cared for, or currently care for will hurt. I just can't comprehend why you'd want to take the risk of it hurting more.
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X-23 wrote "Give her space", is bullshit. That's the absolute worst thing you can do right now. You give her space and before you know it, you find out she's cheating on you, and you'll be devastated.

I'm going to be honest, with the way you're describing her recent actions, there's already another guy. The best thing you can do is man up, tell her how you feel, and end it. You'll recover faster doing this, I promise you. Staying in a soon to be shit show like this will only hurt you more, you'll basically be torutring yourself.

Don't stay with her because you feel "she's the one" or "there's no one like her". You're damn right there's no one like her, in fact, there are thousands that are better.


I can relate bud, I tried it all to stay with my girl after everything happened and I'm glad i did, but if I found out she cheated or anything like that, I would completely shut off and disconnect almost instantly
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But definitely do not just end it from assumptions that she is cheating, worst thing in a relationship is having no trust, turns people into paranoid wrecks, hopefully you can sort this out bud as it's never good to lose your partner, worst come to worst, you have TTG
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Honestly take a break from it, if you act super attached theres no way she might come back. But if you allowed some time to yourself, go out with friends, have some fun with them and other girls. Post it on social media make sure she see it so she can get jealous and wants you back. Sometimes you gotta go with the flow of things live it
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Just be straight up and ask her "What is wrong" or "what can I do to keep you" if she for real has lost feelings dude. It's just time to let it go.
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And like i say Hoe's be Hoe's
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