I meant no disrespect people genuinely go to age 20 without having a girlfriend it doesn't matter how you look/act i'm just telling the truth

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In the best way possible I don't think you aren't ready for a girlfriend. It sounds like you have insecurities and being in a relationship with insecurity problems isn't a good idea. You need to learn to accept yourself. It doesn't matter how you look bro, seriously, if you are genuinely a nice person women will see that. It;s not just how you look. You can go to the gym if that's seriously a problem but honestly you need more confidence, don't give a shit what others think. Try talk to a girl, the worst that can happen is that she says no. That's it. Just try again with another.

However like I said you don't "Need" a girlfriend bro. I mean this in a nice way but at that age relationships aren't serious. Any 16+ year old will tell you this

Why are you so worried at 14? Is it because it seems to be society's "norm"?

Look man, I turn 22 next month. I have never had a girlfriend. I had extremely bad confidence and self-esteem issues when I was your age. They stemed from bullying due to my looks, weight, height, what I wore, how much money my family had, you name it.

You need to be comfortable in your own skin, I know it's extremely hard sometimes. But you have to, most of these guys on here don't have trouble finding relationship, trusting, overcoming shyness, ect. Take it from someone who had trouble overcoming them, and over came them. Be yourself. You can't expect a girl, let alone anyone else to like you unless you like yourself. I'm sorry if that came off as harsh, but it's true.

You want to know how I overcame my shyness? I talked in game chat on Xbox Live. Sounds stupid, right? I know it does, but it worked. But by doing that I found out, that I could make people laugh, and I was generally a fun person to be around. I could be myself on there, and no one could judge. Once I did that, I took it into the real world, and whatda know, I overcame my shyness in the real world too. Don't be afraid to laugh at yourself if you need too, instead of getting embarrassed.

You are 14 dude. Relationships at that age are petty, and nonsense. I've seen some of my friends go mad over a girl, and sob and mope around when she leaves. Do what makes you happy, and I'm sure a girl will show up eventually.

If you do go on the path of weight loss, good luck bud. You can do it.

X-23 wrote Why are you so worried at 14? Is it because it seems to be society's "norm"?

Look man, I turn 22 next month. I have never had a girlfriend. I had extremely bad confidence and self-esteem issues when I was your age. They stemed from bullying due to my looks, weight, height, what I wore, how much money my family had, you name it.

You need to be comfortable in your own skin, I know it's extremely hard sometimes. But you have to, most of these guys on here don't have trouble finding relationship, trusting, overcoming shyness, ect. Take it from someone who had trouble overcoming them, and over came them. Be yourself. You can't expect a girl, let alone anyone else to like you unless you like yourself. I'm sorry if that came off as harsh, but it's true.

You want to know how I overcame my shyness? I talked in game chat on Xbox Live. Sounds stupid, right? I know it does, but it worked. But by doing that I found out, that I could make people laugh, and I was generally a fun person to be around. I could be myself on there, and no one could judge. Once I did that, I took it into the real world, and whatda know, I overcame my shyness in the real world too. Don't be afraid to laugh at yourself if you need too, instead of getting embarrassed.

You are 14 dude. Relationships at that age are petty, and nonsense. I've seen some of my friends go mad over a girl, and sob and mope around when she leaves. Do what makes you happy, and I'm sure a girl will show up eventually.

If you do go on the path of weight loss, good luck bud. You can do it.

Because I don't want to be gay and get made fun of :'(... and it's really hard for me to stay straight because I have a friend who's gay and tbh he is good looking but I don't want to be gay... I want to be straight :'( please tell me if there's anything that can help me try to be straight??

The best advice, be yourself.

Don't pretend to be someone else.

If being yourself gets you nowhere, don't give up, it just means that you haven't found someone looking for who you are at heart yet.

Young love is fragile to say the least, I got my first in-person girlfriend shortly into 9th grade, and it fell apart kinds half way through high school, we fixed it, and then just after senior year, she broke it again so I said screw it lol

Relationships are weird, find someone as crazy as you, and it all should be okay

Aqua_C27 wrote

X-23 wrote Why are you so worried at 14? Is it because it seems to be society's "norm"?

Look man, I turn 22 next month. I have never had a girlfriend. I had extremely bad confidence and self-esteem issues when I was your age. They stemed from bullying due to my looks, weight, height, what I wore, how much money my family had, you name it.

You need to be comfortable in your own skin, I know it's extremely hard sometimes. But you have to, most of these guys on here don't have trouble finding relationship, trusting, overcoming shyness, ect. Take it from someone who had trouble overcoming them, and over came them. Be yourself. You can't expect a girl, let alone anyone else to like you unless you like yourself. I'm sorry if that came off as harsh, but it's true.

You want to know how I overcame my shyness? I talked in game chat on Xbox Live. Sounds stupid, right? I know it does, but it worked. But by doing that I found out, that I could make people laugh, and I was generally a fun person to be around. I could be myself on there, and no one could judge. Once I did that, I took it into the real world, and whatda know, I overcame my shyness in the real world too. Don't be afraid to laugh at yourself if you need too, instead of getting embarrassed.

You are 14 dude. Relationships at that age are petty, and nonsense. I've seen some of my friends go mad over a girl, and sob and mope around when she leaves. Do what makes you happy, and I'm sure a girl will show up eventually.

If you do go on the path of weight loss, good luck bud. You can do it.

Because I don't want to be gay and get made fun of :'(... and it's really hard for me to stay straight because I have a friend who's gay and tbh he is good looking but I don't want to be gay... I want to be straight :'( please tell me if there's anything that can help me try to be straight??

Being single doesn't make you gay, and if it does, then I should be lord of the gays. ( no disrespect )

If you truly are questioning your sexuality, then that alone is definitely a reason not to be in a relationship.

You are 14, you are still growing and developing. ( neurologically, physically, emotionally, ect. ) you need to take a few deep breaths, and relax. Talk to someone on a personal level if you need too. A friend or family member, someone online to ensure anonymity.

Enjoy your youth, you're 14 you need to enjoy it while it lasts. Also don't force a girlfriend because it will get you nowhere but heartbroken, trust me i've been there. Let it happen naturally, you'll find the one soon just wait and you'll see

I laughed at the "really hot" part, that tells me it's all about image.

I'm 18 years old, a high school graduate and I've never had a girlfriend. If you think you're heart is in half now, wait until you spend just 3 months with someone and they leave you. Also, at 14 there is no "love". What you feel is infatuation. That person / relationship is new in your life so you spend as much time with them as you can and you might feel you're in love, but you're just infatuated.

Honestly, at 14 I was a fat roly poly kid who the "hot" girls never talked to. I said screw the dating world and started working at 14. I bucked hay, I split and chucked wood, I re-graveled driveways, etc. I went from the fat roly poly to a big guy pretty fast. Still no "hot" girls talked to me. When I was 15 I bought my truck with the money I earned and by 17 I had tons of cash into my truck and it looks great. All of the sudden, now that I am known for having cash and I have a flashy good looking truck, these "hot" girls want to talk to me. I'm now 18, have a lot of cash in the bank, I travel the country for work making bank and I'm as happy as could be. I don't need or want a girlfriend, all I need for a relationship is my dog. That dog won't leave me when I'm down, he don't shop at fancy stores and spend all my cash, he don't care if I stay out late or bitch about the money I make, and he won't sleep with my best friend. What more do you need? I mean think about it, lock your girlfriend and dog in your trunk. When you open it, which one is happy to see you?




Moral of the story, you're still young, you don't need a girlfriend and even if you did you don't need help from a tech website.

Join the swim team and Pull all them Band Grilz

GUYS I FOUND MYSELF A GIRLFRIEND!!!! I FOUND HERE LAST NIGHT!!!! I WALKED OUTSIDE!! AND I WAS CONFIDENT AND I TALKED TO HER!!!!!!! HERE'S HOW SHE LOOKS!!!

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SHES SO F*CKING HOT!!!! DONT YOU THINK YOUR TAKING HER XD

If you're looking for a *Serious* Relationship just wait till you finish High school my man. Focus on you're grades for the future plus from what I've seen when I was in high school most Releationships last about 2 weeks because they are both not ready for that stage yet. Take things slow you have so much life ahead of you still