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So me and my girlfriend have been going strong for about a year and a half now and her friend (i absolutely hate her, i don't tell my girlfriend that) is trying to tell "stories/rumors" about me to break us up. All these stories/rumors aren't real. Shes trying to say i cheated on my girlfriend with her and with other girls. I can see my girlfriend wants to believe me but she now has this idea in her head like i actually did that and she is just questioning our relationship. Anything would honestly help. Thanks!
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If you're girlfriend truly cares for you, then she will believe you. If not, then it might be time to think about the situation you're in a little harder.

I wish you luck trying to convince her that you truly care for her.
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She really wants to believe me but her friend just keeps adding more and more stuff just making my girlfriend question even more. How can i get her friend to stop?
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Yeah Taylor said it. If she cares for you and loves you, she will believe you. Honestly I hate people that spread rumors, it's like is their life that pathetic that they got to go around and spread rumors that are not even true. If you both have a good enough relationship, like you say then there's no way she could believe some ho spreading rumors. Just saying
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That girl sounds like a right messer!

Your girl should believe you, ask her when and prove to her that you wasn't there when she assumes you cheated
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Have you spoke to both at the same time or just hearing stuff then getting questioned?
what happends when you ask her friend about making stuff up (must have message to prove you havent met up etc...) prove it.

" i cheated on my girlfriend with her" with her... well surely your girlfriend should be annoyed at her..
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What kind of friend is this girl jesus? What kind of friend does that when you are both happy.

I'd be fuming if i were you.
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If your girlfriend values her friend's word more than yours, that's an issue and a signal to you. I would just tell your girl that you honestly never did any of the things that her friend is saying, then it's up to her.
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Its all about trust man. If she really really loves you, and she really carers she will believe you over her friend any day. She's gotta have trust in you. I hope all works out for you man, I've been with my girl for about 9 months now. I dont know what I'd do if I lost her.
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Lol I wouldn't be able to put up with that mate. I would tell her straight, trust me and don't believe them lies or you might as well leave me.
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