Doesn't bother me, they are still playing the game for fun so why not try hard.

Always remember the first rule of gaming,

Anyone worse than you is a noob. Anyone who is better is a tryhard and has no life.

If you follow this rule, you'll understand how the gaming community works.

I'm one of these guys, 3+ KD on all cods baby

It is called being competitive and ranting about it is pathetic to say the least, I mean when we reach max lvl or rank are we just meant to say "Oh well that's that done I will let others win now" ?.

This is me. I try. I like doing well at a game. I'm not gonna play for hours to get the best then just sit there being a retard doing nothing. I play Mw3 A LOT and I like going 24 - 4 etc most SnD games. Trying is fun.

My opinion is, if someone calls you a tryhard, they're just too shit to be good and get upset when they're not the best in the lobby.