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So my friend was ignoring me and i was like well ok than i started talking to him on the same day there is this girl who is really goood friends with him and she was talking to me about it and how our same friend was ignoring her and today he texted me telling me off and stuff because i was talking to her because he found out because she told him and she tells him everything whenever i talk to her she has backed stabbed me at least 20 times and its so dumb i know i should of learned by now but really QUIT back stabbing me wow i really liked ranting and any advice on how to fix this ?
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This was extremely confusing because this was all one sentence.... But just don't talk to her or maybe even both of them. Surely you could find some different friends who respect your privacy.
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artichokes wrote So my friend was ignoring me and i was like well ok than i started talking to him on the same day there is this girl who is really goood friends with him and she was talking to me about it and how our same friend was ignoring her and today he texted me telling me off and stuff because i was talking to her because he found out because she told him and she tells him everything whenever i talk to her she has backed stabbed me at least 20 times and its so dumb i know i should of learned by now but really QUIT back stabbing me wow i really liked ranting and any advice on how to fix this ?


So, my friend was ignoring me. I thought "OK then".
On the same day, there was this girl who is a good friend of his.
She was telling me about how my friend was ignoring her too.
Today I got texts from him, he was angry at me because I was talking to her.
He found out I was talking to her because she told him, I wish people would quit back stabbing me when it should have been a private conversation.
She has done this at least 20 times and it really annoys me, I should have learnt by now but I haven't, any idea on how to fix this situation?

Well, you could not be friends with them.
Find some other people.
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backstabbers don't have a life n live there lives as a lie
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God, there is so many backstabbers at my school, it sucks.
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Deziii wrote This was extremely confusing because this was all one sentence.... But just don't talk to her or maybe even both of them. Surely you could find some different friends who respect your privacy.

I know it was mate im sorry i was just really mad
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Oui wrote God, there is so many backstabbers at my school, it sucks.

i feel you mate they suck !
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You better get to the hospital before you lose too much blood.
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The part I don't understand how exactly she stabbed you in the back. You two were talking about how the guy was ignoring you two, so how did this get the guy angry? If he got that upset with it, it sounds like he stabbed you in the back, not her. If they are more than friends and he doesn't want her talking to you, then technically she backstabbed him if anything. Maybe this has to do with the content of the conversation that you are leaving out, but I don't see where she stabbed you in the back. I have been stabbed in the back by friends and family, and this sounds like it doesn't come anywhere close to that.
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Your friends sound odd.

If he doesn't want you talking to her for some reason, and she keeps talking to you and then telling him...What's the point?

If I was you, I wouldn't even bother.
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