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Well i recently found out that my girlfriend Jessica is cutting :/ She has done it before in her childhood but only because she had a terrible childhood. She isn't cutting because of me but because she is stressed out. Every time i try to talk to her about it she tears up and tells me not to force things out of her. It is killing me inside to see this and i need your guys's help. Jessica and I have been dating for 2 straight months and just had sex a couple nights ago for the first time. Do you think it could be that? She told me not to try to fix it because i can't. I'm not just going to sit around and wait until she stops..
please I know the community has some very powerful answers and you guys have really big hearts. So thank you for reading and please give me your feedback. you know help a bro out?

we are both 15 and sophomores in high school
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Need some advice?

Dont ask about girls on a Gaming website full of 12 year olds.

-Zipper- wrote Jessica and I have been dating for 2 straight months and just had sex a couple nights ago for the first time.


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i cant believe i just read this but it cant be unseen...

SOOOOOO! i suggest cutting with her to make her happy?

Sound like something id do ^_^
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Consoled wrote i cant believe i just read this but it cant be unseen...

SOOOOOO! i suggest cutting with her to make her happy?

Sound like something id do ^_^


Thats like saying she kills people to be happy, and then he should Join it to be happy also. :facepalm:

No.
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To be honest man I couldn't put up with that. Life is suppose to be fun, but if people want to be like that I let them do it. I would just move on man, but that's just me.
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Really man, im sorry. You can try to talk to her the best u can, just keep trying to get her to stop. Explain how much you love her and just keep trying to inform her that she needs to stop. The best thing to do is make her happy. Goodluck man.
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Durant wrote
Consoled wrote i cant believe i just read this but it cant be unseen...

SOOOOOO! i suggest cutting with her to make her happy?

Sound like something id do ^_^


Thats like saying she kills people to be happy, and then he should Join it to be happy also. :facepalm:

No.


well if she cuts and she's done it for a while? wouldnt she be dead? -_-
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acrocide wrote To be honest man I couldn't put up with that. Life is suppose to be fun, but if people want to be like that I let them do it. I would just move on man, but that's just me.

i thought about it but i just like her so much and i dont want to not be with her </3
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-Zipper- wrote Jessica and I have been dating for 2 straight months and just had sex a couple nights ago for the first time.

we are both 15 and sophomores in high school


WOAH WOAH WOAH WOAH WOAH... hold up now. You're 15 and having sex?

What has society came to.
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dylanm117 wrote Really man, im sorry. You can try to talk to her the best u can, just keep trying to get her to stop. Explain how much you love her and just keep trying to inform her that she needs to stop. The best thing to do is make her happy. Goodluck man.

your right she is just so sensitive about it :/
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