Yo cookie that girl is crazy

Had the same situation, I got cheated on Friday the 13th of 2015 off my girlfriend of 3 years. She came back to me and we tried again it just wasn't the same you can't just go back to the way you were before If you think you can move on knowing she done that and won't do it again then yeah but it'll play with your head best thing you can do is get rid of people like such and move on it's hard but it's harder fixing something that's broken. That's just my 2 pence though

Move on pal. Tell her parents what she is doing to herself. If she is cutting herself, that is on her. She is mentally unstable and needs serious help, not a boyfriend.

You two have been threw a lot together. You've done each other wrong in ways you probably shouldn't have. It's all based off of cause and effect. you fall for her, she falls for you. Arguments here and there, makes you stronger. You cheat, she feels that your untrustworthy and that she hasn't done her job correctly. And she's striving for equivalence now. She cheats and now you feel the same as she does. You two have done damn near everything in the book. So your faced with a few options. 1. Be grown ups and set beside one another and see if there's a way for redemption. 2. Tell her your trust in her is completely gone, but you still enjoy her company. And slowly gain everything plus more back. Or 3. Break it off and confront her parents about her being an endangerment to herself and others.

Xyloph wrote You two have been threw a lot together. You've done each other wrong in ways you probably shouldn't have. It's all based off of cause and effect. you fall for her, she falls for you. Arguments here and there, makes you stronger. You cheat, she feels that your untrustworthy and that she hasn't done her job correctly. And she's striving for equivalence now. She cheats and now you feel the same as she does. You two have done damn near everything in the book. So your faced with a few options. 1. Be grown ups and set beside one another and see if there's a way for redemption. 2. Tell her your trust in her is completely gone, but you still enjoy her company. And slowly gain everything plus more back. Or 3. Break it off and confront her parents about her being an endangerment to herself and others.

Hmm i really like this info you gave me i will put this into consideration you made me chuckle at the end lol she doesnt do that anymore after she got help when i told her to it took a few months but she eventually became normal lol and now shes normal without having to take her prescribed meds, which is another reason why im so attatched because i feel im the person responsible for her well being because i know without me shed still be the way she was although she did blame cutting herself on me alot of the time.

I would not give her the time if day! Do not put yourself through that mess again, it's not worth it and it makes you look like a fool. It sounds like she has alot iof insecurities and that's something you shouldn't deal with. No guy wants a girl with that many insecurities.

I would walk away and say 'it's best if we go our separate ways'. Or just don't say anything and block her and move on. Life is way too short to put up with B.S. Like that

Damn, this shit got deep. TTG got some real ass people on here. Respect.

If you want my opinion play hard to get, poke her one last time and walk away.. or thats what id do

XeCookie_ wrote Ok I'm gonna get right into it so I met this girl in January of 2014 and we talked for a while go to know each other and we fell in love so then we got together a few months later July 11th 2014 we had a normal relationship for a while we were both happy then things got a little out of hand and I tried to break up with her she then threatened to kill her self so I didn't leave here then this cycled I tried to break up with her then she threatened to kill herself I didn't believe her at times and it got to a point where she proved she was being serious she cut her wrists in front of me and forced me to watch it she wouldn't let me close my eyes or look away so that's when I realized she was crazy lol (I know it's not a laughing matter) so then I made her get help and she did she went to the doctor and got meds and stuff and surprisingly with time she got better and then I screwed up and cheated on her and she found out and broke up with me but then I fought really hard to get her back and I did then we were doing good for a few months and then she did the same to me she cheated on me and then I fought for her and won her over again from that point we called it even we obviously didn't trust each other but we stould together and from the point she cheated on me to October 18th of this year so from April 16th to October 18th we argued every single day non stop (I'm not exaggerating either we literally argued everyday) so this is obviously unhealthy she then cheated on me again on September 24th of this year and that's when it was the last draw we were completely done (or so I thought) so we didn't talk obviously from September when she got her new bf that she cheated on me with till last Thursday the 15th of December she messaged me out of the blue saying she missed me and gave me a big story about how she's sorry and wants to make things work so I've been talking to her for the passed few days and I realized she seems like she changed but I will never trust this girl again she trying to get back with me but now I just can't trust her I constantly feel like she is talking to another guy and lately I feel like she's just being nice until I decide to get back with her and that's when she will be the same old person she was before so I was wondering what should I do about this should I walk away or should I try again for those of you who ready this give me a reason don't just say walk away and don't just say stay with her thanks for reading and thanks in advance to those who help.

well it seems to me you guys arent made for each other if you just cheat on one another while youre together.

don't stay with her just because its easier, big mistake it never works, she cheated on you, and the thinks she can get you back? nahhhh bruhhhh doesn't work like that call it quits