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So I need some real advice. So ive been dating this girl for about 9 months and its all pretty much long distance. Shes going to be 17 March 23rd and I'm going to be 19 on April 14th. I know the age is kind of an issue but her mom is totally cool with it. Lately not been happy at all. Its not because of her, I'm just genuinely not happy overall. Idk why. I lost my mom on January 2 this year and ive been taking that really rough but my girlfriend has been nothing but supportive and tries her best to cheer me up. Shes really an amazing girl and I really care about her. I know love is a strong word but I guess you could say I love her. Now heres the issue, theres some days where I don't want anything to do with her and theres others that all I want to do is just lay in bed and skype her all day. She doesn't ever do anything to upset me and I feel like by not talking to her and avoiding her sometimes is just hurting her. I know she cares about me a lot and always worries about me but i feel like my moral is effecting her and my problems are bringing her down as well. I want to be with her but then theres days where i feel like we should break up just so i can focus on making my self happy in general. That sounds selfish i know but idk what to do


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You need a vacation an have time to your self an away from technology no phones como tiers nothing just spend time with yourself some where nice an pieceful
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Just let it run it's course for a while, man. Every relationship has it's tough times. The ones that push through them are the best ones. Trust me, you'll know when the feelings are gone.
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Maybe take her with you get away from the things you already have in life an go some where new enjoyn life with her or go by yourself do something that will make you happy again
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Honestly You should try and take a Vacation, Try doing some stuff you enjoy to cheer yourself up. Just dont Stress yourself out over everything thats happened recently just try to look forward
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Like everyone else has said is true. You should really just take a break because you have gone through a lot in the past couple months. It is never easy losing someone and I am sure your girl friend just wants to help but you want some time alone after what has happened which makes sense.

It is also possible that you and your girl friend are out of the honeymoon stage now and so you are a little bored at times because nothing is new. The honeymoon stage is when all you think about it your girlfriend and nothing bad happens and nothing that she does bothers you.


I think you need to take a little break and just get away and just have some time to yourself so you can think about things that are going on in your life. Someone else that might help is talking to someone about everything that is and has happened recently. Here on TTG is really easy to do and its great that you came on here but I think you should just sit down with someone and say whats going on in person! I think that might help you a bunch!



Let us know how every thing goes and if you need anymore help!
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Thanks guys! It feels like it would do me good to get away for it bit
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