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My life is just great.

For the past 2 months, nothing has gone well for me and frankly I don't know what to even do now. People I considered friends and even more "lost interest" in me, I haven't been happy in the slightest for the better part of a month, people barely talk to me and I don't know what to do about it other than let it all get me, and I don't really have anyone else to tell it to.

Suggestions?
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Don't think they're 'friends' mate. Go out (not saying you dont) and interact with different people, if you go school/college/work then there's definitely people you can get closer with and maybe get to know more so you can become more. Be happy.
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Get out to a club and meet people that you like. If you both like the same club then you have one thing in common allready.
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I know how it feels bro. I suffer from social anxiety and severe depression and I know it can be terrible at times. You just have to keep going. It's like trying to walk through five or six feet of snow - it's really hard but if you put your best effort into it, you'll be just fine. If you'd like someone to talk to, feel free to PM me, I'll be a friend.
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In the same boat, but mine has been going for at least 2-3 years now. I can talk to people but I just don't any real friends that I hang out with. People who have never went through this, will never understand how badly it affects you. Keep your head up man, it's just a matter of time and putting yourself out there will pay off. Easier said than done but that is what I keep telling myself.
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People that just stop talking to you and up and leave you were not your friends in the first place. Go out and socialize and make more friends. You can do it, just keep your head up and try and be happy, man.
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Headlong wrote I know how it feels bro. I suffer from social anxiety and severe depression and I know it can be terrible at times. You just have to keep going. It's like trying to walk through five or six feet of snow - it's really hard but if you put your best effort into it, you'll be just fine. If you'd like someone to talk to, feel free to PM me, I'll be a friend.

So do I! Its really hard at times but just think about it and you can over come it.
I have moved schools and i have social anxiety, its hard moving schools anyway but when i get anxious at talking to people i don't have clue when i will make any friends.
At least i have TTG with friends on here to talk to lol.

OP- maybe ask a teacher if you can do a group homework. it will get you to talk to others and could spark a friendship.
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I wouldn't say they are friends I would try and get yourself into a new group
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As much as i'd like to get a group homework, I physically can't bring myself to talk to anyone 3/4 of the time. It's probably the main cause of the issue. Add that to people in my class consisting mainly of people who hate me, an ex, and a bunch of pricks, not going to end well

However it's okay,

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I got this
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This has happened to me but think of it, as they are losing you, not the other way around, it helps so much, but if you really want more friends in your life, go out and try to socialize with different people and interact more, it will help
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