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So it has been a couple years now since my parents have ben divorced and it sucks but i got used to it it was really hard in the beginning and its still hard now but i have begun to get used to it. So i get to see my dad every other weekend and its alright we usually do the same exact thing every time im with him then im on my way back to my moms house. So my dad has a girlfriend and she has a son and they both live with him. This means that her son sees my dad 14 days and i see him 2. It makes me sad that this is happening and i almost feel left out. Im 16 years old i know maybe i shouldn't feel this way but i do. I feel like he is so content with his "Little family" over there and he never tries to do anything extra like ask for more time or put in effort in. It has come to a point where i just want to give up on our relationship its sad but true please help me guys.
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Same sht happened to my cousin and his dad. His dad got married to a girl with 2 kids and pretty much threw him away. I feel sorry for you man, but stick through it.
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Luckily my parents divorced when I was little so after seeing my dad every other weekend I just grew tired of it and pretty much stopped seeing him altogether at around the age of 16. Yes he is happy with his new family but why should you care? Live the life you want and try to be more independent.
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[align=center]Just be grateful you have your dad my friend, he'll always love you as a son that's all you can do, and cherish your moments with him.

I'm 17, and lost both my parents at the age of 11.

On a side note: if you take offence to things easily, dont open the spoiler.

Hate me for my opinion, but people who get ripped to pieces over there parents divorcing is pathetic. (Like I said, it's my opinion, hate me for it, that's fine)[
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Tell your dad how you feel m8 then the ball is in his court, he either makes the effort to visit you more or he chooses not to.
Either way you will get the answer you're looking for.

gl
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Well bud if the court order states the exact hours your father gets that's all to the judge to decide. He would have to take your mom back to the judge and see what he decides if your father deserves to get more or not. Unless they just broke up and never went through the judge then that's all your moms decision bud


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I'm in the same boat as you mate, the only difference is mine have been for about 15 years and he has another 4 kids, and see him 2-3 times a year if I'm lucky, Xavia.
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