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so me and my gf are moving from fl too nc soon but we have been having issues I'm more emotionless and shes always sad and depressed she told me I don't show her love or check on her to see how shes doing does anyone have advice like how to deal with having a depressed SO

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Maybe try being a bit more communicative towards her understanding her more how she's coming across like that, on the topic of being emotionless being that is probably why she thinks that, do you still love your gf?
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Declan1010 wrote Maybe try being a bit more communicative towards her understanding her more how she's coming across like that, on the topic of being emotionless being that is probably why she thinks that, do you still love your gf?
i agree with this. Communication is key
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Declan1010 wrote Maybe try being a bit more communicative towards her understanding her more how she's coming across like that, on the topic of being emotionless being that is probably why she thinks that, do you still love your gf?

i do for sure i love her a lot we are good together when i can show her i love her but some times i feel weird to show it and i don't know why
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Antiglio wrote
Declan1010 wrote Maybe try being a bit more communicative towards her understanding her more how she's coming across like that, on the topic of being emotionless being that is probably why she thinks that, do you still love your gf?

i do for sure i love her a lot we are good together when i can show her i love her but some times i feel weird to show it and i don't know why


People show feelings in different ways. Some people are very touchy and some people hate being touched. You just have to tell her what language you are and she needs to respect that.
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I agree with all of the following posts pretty much. In relationships I feel like you have to do things for your S/O that you may not do naturally or enjoy doing. Sometimes you have to make sacrifices to accommodate them. It shouldn't just be you having to show more affection. Perhaps if you communicated with her about all of this, she could work on being better about it too. I had an ex gf that constantly needed attention, and in the end I wasn't able to do that for her, so I can relate to you in a way. It's clear that you love her a lot, and I'm confident you'll get things to work out.

Best of luck man! Hope the move goes well.
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Communication is key... currently experiencing the same right now. Our love for one another is infinity but you GOTTA talk. Best of luck to you
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To echo what has been said, communication is key.

This might help you be better at dealing with depression.
healthline.com/health/what-to-say...depression

You need to understand that what you do one day might not work another day. Some days I want someone to hug me and tell me it's okay, some days I want people to leave me alone. You need to communicate and learn the queues from your partner.

If they can help you then that's important, you can't be doing all the work, they need to try and help you to help them.
Have the dialogue with them about what you can do to help, what the plans are if things get too bad.
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Put your pride aside and show your true feelings & start showing your love unconditionally that you have for her. Trying to be in a relationship whether you or your S/O suffer from depression is hard, it's going to be constant reassurance and validating each others feelings. As long as you both know at the end of the day you want it to work, it'll workout.
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talk to her more and less time on other things MORE time with her
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