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I just wanted to get on here and express myself about friends and there isn't a such things well at least the ones I thought were friends. The only true friend you can have is your girlfriend....if you have one at the time.

I been friends with this guy since high school and when I got with my girl a year ago she immediately told me she didn't like him. I didn't listen at first because I'm like "You don't know him like that so how could you say that?"

I'm starting to see what she means now so I was having a conversation with him the other day at work and we were talking about some purchases we wanted to make. I wanted to purchase a new gun & he said "I don't see why you would spend money on a gun that'll be a waste of money". I have multiple guns and I have a family so I get them for self-defense and a hobby since I work Mon-Friday. He tells me he want's to buy new rims and speaker system for his 2001 MERCEDES ! I just thought to myself that's a waste of money and his car has been having issues since he bought it a few months ago.

In conclusion, LISTEN TO YOUR GIRL !
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i know and speak to alot off people but i have a very very small friend group. stay with the mates that you can be yourself around and not to be made to feel bad about things, stick with you till the end
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In my opinion, time helps tell who your true friends are

The real ones stick by your side no matter what!
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Its all about who is therefore you and sticks around you through the hard times.
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HOW DARE HE WANT TO TELL HIS OPINION OF WHAT HE THINKS IS A WASTE OF A MONEY, HOW DARE HE! DOESN'T HE KNOW HE SHOULD TREMBLE TO THE MIGHT OF VMP AND HIS GIRLFRIEND???
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@VMP Tru dat


Liv wrote In my opinion, time helps tell who your true friends are

The real ones stick by your side no matter what!


coadyonline wrote Its all about who is therefore you and sticks around you through the hard times.


Yeah, I agree with you both on that one

A few years back (I won't go into details) I had a bit of bother etc,
and I found out who were my true friends

Some I hadn't known for long stepped up and helped me,
but most of the ones I knew years and years more....
Did f****ing nothing
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Just don't have many, or any, that's the way forward
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I dont have many friends. I have maybe 4 close friends and I keep them close. I know my friends are real friends no matter how far they move away or how mad we get at each other. I see people with a 50 person friend group complaining about how all their friends are fake and all I can do is laugh because they literally cannot get super emotionally close to that amount of people.
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Your girlfriend doesn't like what he spends his own money on or
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Heres my view on it read it or dont idm.
True friends will stick with you through the good and bad days, true friends are the ones that you can have a laugh with and have fun, real friends won't go behind your back and shit talk you all the time real friends to me are supportive, and people are not perfect sure there will be some weird times in friendships, but if they truely care about you they will stick with ya and want the friendship to go on and support your decisions as long as its not going to brutally F your life up.

Just because a friend says he thinks an idea or a decsion is stupit doesn't mean he or she is a bad friend they might just be brutally honest or yous just have different intrests he would probably like to see you spend more on a car than to get into guns but yous are different people and thats okay, i certainlly think some of my friends hobbys or decisions are dumb or a waste of time and im sure some of my friends feel the same way about me but that doesn't affect our friendship, id say dont over think about it it really doesn't seem that big of a deal its your money do with it as you please,

If he is toxic makes a big deal out of it or makes fun of you constantly he is not a real friend, i had around 15-20 friends in highschool id say im mates with 2 of them now and only speak to one of them regularly, alot seemed like fake friends talked shit behind my back or didn't initiate the conversations so i just stopped contacting people to see who would contact me first and from highschool turns out its not many, 23 years old now and id say i have 6 friends now and 4 true friends that im close with that i speak to reagularly and i know will stick by me, sometimes its tough finding out whos real or fake but as someone else said time will tell, just dont go round trusting and befriending every kind person because doing that will eventually get you backstabbed,

And also make time for your friends yourself, my friend got into a relastionship and didnt make time for any of his friends so all his friends thought he was a fake friend who only wanted to spend time with his girl 2 years go by and he literally had no friends, he contacts me we talk abit and he mentions that no one else will reply to him that im the only one who gave him the time of day so we chatted for a while and he turned into my best mate hes gotten into another relastionship again since then and he works alot and doesnt want to make the same mistake again so this time round he makes time for his friends and even tho its not often every 2 weeks he hops on xbox for a few hours or every 2 months he sets up a card pool just to keep in contact with everyone and it seems to be working might also be because we are older and our friends realise we dont have all the free time in the world as we use to as kids lol.


TLDR: make time for your friends if they make time for you and yous trust eachother and are there for eachother during ups and downs yous are real friends, friendships are tricky, people can be honest or dicks at times but they may mean no real harm sometimes shit gets heated, real friends will try make it up to you if your let down.
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