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So for a long story short im trying to set my friend up on a date and i asked someone if they knew any single people and their reply was "i dont really know that many single poeple and idk what kind of guys there into". My question is what should i do next? Should i describe my friend? Or should i ask her to ask her friends what type of people there into? Any help is appreciated.
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Idk sounds like the girl you're asking may have said that to try to avoid having to hit up people she knows to go on a date, girls like a confident guy and if he isn't showing that confidence it may be rough finding someone for him.

Best of luck but if you ask me I'd just let him wait it out till he find who he's looking for not what someone else thinks he's looking for.
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Petite wrote Idk sounds like the girl you're asking may have said that to try to avoid having to hit up people she knows to go on a date, girls like a confident guy and if he isn't showing that confidence it may be rough finding someone for him.

Best of luck but if you ask me I'd just let him wait it out till he find who he's looking for not what someone else thinks he's looking for.


thanks for the input, hes kind of shy and wont exactly initiate the first contact, which is why im trying to set him up.
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Find out if she's into him first. When you are alone with her (if possible) just be like, "hey what do you think about my boy ____." Then go from there. If she's into him get the ball rolling, and if she's not, then try to hype up what type of dude he is to her. You could strike the match, but ultimately it's gonna take him to keep the fire kindled.
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"N" to the "O"

If he's shy he might feel obligated to go out with this person if they like him even if he doesn't like them which doesn't work out so well. Now if you know a person that's also shy when it comes to this sort of thing and on the same "social level" then talk them up and tell them they'd be good for each other, introduce them, etc.
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Ask what type of people there into
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Iizard wrote Find out if she's into him first. When you are alone with her (if possible) just be like, "hey what do you think about my boy ____." Then go from there. If she's into him get the ball rolling, and if she's not, then try to hype up what type of dude he is to her. You could strike the match, but ultimately it's gonna take him to keep the fire kindled.


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