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Jaces
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Simple story really...

I've been talking to this girl for a few weeks and we both really like each other. We talk everyday for hours upon hours, we've done a few things etc. She's perfect to me and I'm perfect to her. On Monday something happened though. We hung out and we were with 2 other people. While we were out I was messaging my mom, my mom was going crazy and pretty much packing everything in my room saying she's going to throw me out. We were standing in line for 30 min and she says let's go. Instead of rambling off a bunch of personal stuff in front of 2 randoms I tell her I have to go then I texted her I was sorry and would explain later. I fell asleep and woke up later in the day and she tells me she f*cked some guy and she was sorry. After that everything kinda went downhill obviously.. I don't see her the same and even what I did for her on Valentine's Day kinda just killed me inside.. she kept begging for me to give her a second chance but now I have a lot to worry about.

Now what should I do?
I get we aren't dating yet but the fact she even considered someone over me after everything she said And I did seems kinda seems like "K". I wanna personally just tell her I can't deal with this because I have enough issues but idk.. I want her but I don't want this to repeat itself. Think I should still talk to her or negative?

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hoot (02-21-2018)
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Tbh. Move on, find somebody else. If you don't feel intrested in her and all you wanna say is "K." Then move on. Sorry it happened it to you but there are plenty of other girls.
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2019 wrote Tbh. Move on, find somebody else. If you don't feel intrested in her and all you wanna say is "K." Then move on. Sorry it happened it to you but there are plenty of other girls.


I didn't say K lmfao that's just what I think... but that's a good idea, don't wanna waste anymore time like I did last time.
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assailin wrote
2019 wrote Tbh. Move on, find somebody else. If you don't feel intrested in her and all you wanna say is "K." Then move on. Sorry it happened it to you but there are plenty of other girls.


I didn't say K lmfao that's just what I think... but that's a good idea, don't wanna waste anymore time like I did last time.
"all you wanna" - Before tense.
But there definitely is other love out there man, like tbh there is no reason to be strung on one girl at a young age. Just live you life. Like if you're not 21 yet (idk if you are or are not) then you haven't gone to bars or other fun adult stuff.
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she clearly a hoe, dont waste another second on her.

OR you could smash once then dip
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2019 wrote
assailin wrote
2019 wrote Tbh. Move on, find somebody else. If you don't feel intrested in her and all you wanna say is "K." Then move on. Sorry it happened it to you but there are plenty of other girls.


I didn't say K lmfao that's just what I think... but that's a good idea, don't wanna waste anymore time like I did last time.
"all you wanna" - Before tense.
But there definitely is other love out there man, like tbh there is no reason to be strung on one girl at a young age. Just live you life. Like if you're not 21 yet (idk if you are or are not) then you haven't gone to bars or other fun adult stuff.


Wow.. no reason to be strung at a young age.. wish I've heard that so much earlier. Thanks though, just gonna tell her cya and block her and feed off a big o well I am 16 btw so I don't even see a point since I'm so young anyways
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Take that next step in life.

With or without her.

If you love her but scared she's going to do it again then just dip but if you trust her then live life.
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She couldn't of liked you very much if she slept with a another guy... move on.
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Yep, you're young and she messed up. You don't accidentally sleep with someone and if she's willing to cheat once then I can tell you that you are not special to her and she will cheat again.
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Close that chapter in your life and open another one.
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