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Okay, I know I posted about my breakup through my last giveaway, but now it's really taking a toll on me. If you known of you know the story, it slightly goes like this:
We were together for a little over 8 months and I recently found out that she cheated on me early on in our relationship multiple times. It took me several months to find out. My heart was broke because I did everything in my possible power to treat this girl like royalty, but I ended up being heart broken. I feel much better because I'm not dating a cheater anymore, but I'm still slightly depressed that someone could do that to someone else that did so much for them. Any suggestions of what I can do? I hate asking for help, but there's some really nice people on here and I'm looking for their inspiration.

Please no hateful messages, as I don't deserve them.

Thanks guys.

-Jason.

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Jass wroteOkay, I know I posted about my breakup through my last giveaway, but now it's really taking a toll on me. If you known of you know the story, it slightly goes like this:
We were together for a little over 8 months and I recently found out that she cheated on me early on in our relationship multiple times. It took me several months to find out. My heart was broke because I did everything in my possible power to treat this girl like royalty, but I ended up being heart broken. I feel much better because I'm not dating a cheater anymore, but I'm still slightly depressed that someone could do that to someone else that did so much for them. Any suggestions of what I can do? I hate asking for help, but there's some really nice people on here and I'm looking for their inspiration.

Please no hateful messages, as I don't deserve them.

Thanks guys.

-Jason.



Hey Jason,

Sounds like a rough time for you. I am sorry that you are feeling this way. Something I have learned over the years is that only you can make yourself happy. I know it hurts what she put you through; but you gotta understand she is her own person as well and you cannot control that. I guess what I am trying to say is; Focus on yourself and making yourself happy and putting yourself in a better place. Somebody who appreciates you and wants to see you grow more will eventually come and hopefully not put you through what you are going through again. Just focus on making you better and happier and life will take care of the rest. I hope you feel better brother.
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Girls come and go man. It's part of life and just means she wasn't the one! Build yourself into a better person, work on your life. Where you are in life. Build something of yourself and maybe in the future you will find the right one for you.

I'm here for you brother.
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Hey Mate. I'm sorry you feel that way see it as a learning curve it seems hard now but she was no good for you at all from what you've said and she didn't see what your worth and I'll tell you now you're worth %100 more than her it will hurt and you will over think everything but it gets so much easier dealing with the bad stuff. I'm on most days if you ever want to talk just message me honestly I have time for you.

I recently split with my girlfriend after 3years and there was a baby involved I know what you're going through. in a sense..

Head up and smile maybe hard but you'll get through it.
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Listen to music get a new hobby. Also set a goal for your self so you have something to look forward too. Life shouldn't just be about girls. Now is time to learn and find a way to be better person. If you start doing cool things you will meet a better girl. I've been through this it's rough but u gotta keep looking forwars
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I was with my girlfriend for almost two years and we had a pretty rough breakup, it took me awhile to get over not going to lie. She was the first person I really loved, It takes time to feel better. Heartbreak is a pain I wouldn't wish on anybody, but you gotta know this happens to everybody! Everybody will experience a heartbreak. The best advice I can give you is focus on yourself don't resort to any petty stuff such as getting a rebound or hooking up with girls that are easy, cause yeah you may hurt your ex but in the end you're just going to hurt your self.
If you truly loved her you're not just going to wake up tomorrow and feel 100% better, like I said it took me almost a year to even want to consider dating again, everybody heals differently & the time it takes to heal varies with everybody. Use this as an opportunity to change yourself for the better! Start going to the gym, go out and make new friends, meet new people.
If you need to talk just shoot me a PM i'm always here bud just remember you'll get through this and in the end you'll be thankful for the heartbreak.
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Make sure you do not go back for 2nds. You deserve someone who will put in the same amount of efforts you are. You did best you could and things didn't work out, now its time to fill that void. Continue to think of things that make you happy. & never forget that you matter. You are very important to a lot of people. A lot of people love you and care about you and what you are going through will pass and when it does you will look back at the lessons learned.

Life is full of ups and downs, usually when your down. It will bring some of the best up moments. Usually happens when you are least expecting it

Keep being the great person you are and keep moving forward, one thing is for sure. Everything will be okay. Stay positive man
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Achieve your goals and make her regret playing you
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I love you guys, all of you.
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Thing with break ups usually the bloke is fine the first couple of days, then it hits you. Hard. My only advice is simple, spend as much time with your friends, not on the Xbox but doing actual things. Keep your mind busy, hope you're okay!
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