GeneralMy life changed over night, maybe for the better?
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This isn't a sympathy story or post I just wanted to let you guys in on my life thus far

I posted on here a few week back about my first ever place with my girlfriend..

Cut. Story short, before we got tenancy agreement, and 3 weeks into our home and money spent, 8 o'clock at night the landlord kicked us out literally told you "out before 11 tomorrow" we broke down. Tears anger arguments, we had No contract so we had near to no fight...

We was left homeless. We slept rough 3 nights in a friends car and couple sofas later

We have another flat, 1 bedroom now not 3, and contract signed and sealed

We many have no money now to re do it all (before people ask we spent quite a lot on the walls, new floor etc etc) so our money went on the stuff wouldn't couldn't tKe. So we now have a new place . We have our bill money which is the thing that matters. We don't even have money for a bed atm but, WE HVE A PLACE!! You must stay positive and things will come, won't they?


We have so much stress now after such an awful period. Maybe just maybe we could of done something but we're young and stressed and upset we didn't think, we've lost out on money but, we have our home properly this time.

We don't work atm because of covid but you know what. This feels good, yeah our chips are down right now and we have to build up some how! But we have a roof heating water electric!!!

Pleaee every one stay positive if something happens it gets better, slowly very slowly!!

That's just a story for a few people that interacted with me a month back when we got our home


onwards and upwards

Currently no internet either had to pay £150 or something to break our internet contract too, so currently running of 4G I promise I'll be more active when we get stuff rolling

BLESS ttg

Ashley

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And we don't get paid


My gf was new to a job on a 0 hour so she gets £0

And I was sacked before lockdown to save payment


We have one claim, hence why we can pay the bills for all wondering

But like I said. We might not have money but we have a home! And that's what counts!!!!
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What I took from whatever English that was, is this:

You spent all your money within 3 weeks of living in a place that wasn't technically yours on walls, floors, etc.

You got kicked out of a place that wasn't technically yours and have been living in cars and various places.

You have a new place which is super cool, but no money because you spent it all on floors, walls, etc for a place that wasn't technically yours.



Sounds like you're in quite the pickle, my friend. Hope all is well, and keep your head held high.
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Sucks dude you will get there in time, been in bad spots myself you can get through it
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Nick wrote What I took from whatever English that was, is this:

You spent all your money within 3 weeks of living in a place that wasn't technically yours on walls, floors, etc.

You got kicked out of a place that wasn't technically yours and have been living in cars and various places.

You have a new place which is super cool, but no money because you spent it all on floors, walls, etc for a place that wasn't technically yours.



Sounds like you're in quite the pickle, my friend. Hope all is well, and keep your head held high.



A couple spelling mistakes and non use of punctuality, you still understood.

But kind of not, we moved into a real 3 bedroom flat pending contract tenancy, we decorated and replace the flooring which isn't cheap to randomly get evicted...

We now have a new place with only bill money. We aren't in a pickle like I stated we have a roof over our heads and that's the priority

No matter how bad and low things become, always something happens to improve it!!! Never let stuff get you down forever! It gets better

GETS WORSE BEFORE IT GETS BETTER!!
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Hopefully you luck gets better! Hate to see anyone down! But at least your still trying!
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Just take this as one of life's learning curves. Move on, save up and try and ensure you have everything secure before spending money on it. Guess you live and learn! For your first home, you don't need fancy things. As long as you've got each other.. the materialistic things will come second.
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