Tricks wrote Lol I've been cheated on, she will say whatever she can to make it seem like it wasn't her fault, it's not what you think, and try to guilt trip you into staying.

Leave. Run. Run as far away from her as you can. You say above that you don't want anyone else, cool, but it looks like she can't say the same about you.

My ex is exactly that, my ex. If I don't care about them still, I'm not going to be walking down the street "catching up" with them, and if I am going to go catch up with my ex, I am not going to go lie about it.

You're 17, go find someone who is just as much infatuated with you as you are with them. When you find the one, trust me, you're not going to care about "catching up" with any of your exes.

Thanks man, I have blocked her on social media. Time to move on I guess

She's lying to you.
Actually she's lying to you about lying to you.

First post, she was supposed to be at her friends house. That's a lie.
Running away? She knows she has something to hide.

Do yourself a favor a leave. It can be hard as hell, I'm sure this is the first time you've been in love, but this is the best decision for you.
If you're in the position where you can buy your lady an Audi, you deserve to have someone that makes you unquestionably happy to give it to and she doesn't sound deserving.

You're 17. You'll find another woman who will treat you right. You just have to do some soul searching and find who you are, before you find who you want.

She decides to flee with her new flame as soon as she sees her mother, you best not be gullible and give her a second chance. One is that car you got her so she is willing to play all her cards as she swells hope of forgiveness from you. You're 17, don't be naive man. The right thing for her to have done would have been to ask her mom where you were at so she could explain the situation instead of fleeing. But since she lied about being at a friend's house, best to kick that thot to the curve. Keep the car. You'll find somebody better later on that will treat you right.

Txby wrote

Vial wrote You caught her out bro end it.I just recently went through a breakup so I know how you feel.

But I don't know if she was definitely cheating? Would you class that as cheating? I'm sorry to hear that bro I really am

Like itd be Red flags all over I would say something went on between them if she had to lie to you.I get what you mean about not wanting anyone else I still feel the same about my ex gf even though she hurt me alot. but im the same age as you man and we will have plenty more chances to find someone we deserve.

Thanks for the replies guys, it really does feel nice to have people to talk to so thank you all so much!

I have blocked her on everything and I just received a text from her mum saying

"Toby I am so sorry, words can't explain how heartbroken I am for you. Ellie adores you, as do we all and my heart is with you. Hopefully things will work out, for now I think it's best if you both have time apart. Lots of love X"

Listening to you guys, I believe I will move on if I just focus on myself for now.

Again, thank you all

So the girl is a lost cause, but i'm sure we'd love to see a picture of those sweet wheels you've just obtained.

Txby wrote Thanks for the replies guys, it really does feel nice to have people to talk to so thank you all so much!

I have blocked her on everything and I just received a text from her mum saying

"Toby I am so sorry, words can't explain how heartbroken I am for you. Ellie adores you, as do we all and my heart is with you. Hopefully things will work out, for now I think it's best if you both have time apart. Lots of love X"

Listening to you guys, I believe I will move on if I just focus on myself for now.

Again, thank you all

Sounds like her Mam is really upset with her and knows how much shes f'ed up by doing that to you personally man I wouldnt go back to her.

Best case scenario she lies to your but thats the 1% she was almost certainly cheating, people dont lie and run for no reason, would you? Walk away from it.

Obligatory bought her a car at 17 TF

bro your 17 dont sweat it but maybe think about what you did to not see this from happening im 21 and my GF is 31 bro and im very noisy and protective I always know what my gf is doing and its the same way for her you gotta make sure you know what your girl is always doing and test her girls are just like guys and guys love to just sleep with every girl its just how guys are wired.