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If someone makes side remakes about you or laughs or even a dirty look how do you handle them talking about you at work ?, I ignore it or I make sarcastic remarks back.

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Go on with your day, your there to make money, not make friends. everywhere you work will have those people.
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Ignore it, keep it professional.

If they're ever confrontational I'll have a chat with my manager and disciplinary action will be taken while making me look better at the same time.
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in any situation this happens best thing to do it is ignore. If it was in the workplace and happening a lot I would possibly say something not for myself but it would benefit everyone if they didnt have to work alongside people who are that immature.
Personally I joke about, I remember someone called me gay for what I was wearing (didn't look feminine it was just a general insult I think) so I blew them a kiss lmao it made them so uncomfortable
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We have an office of 5 lads. We try to keep it banterous between ourselves and at times, yes, it does go too far. Normally, one person just gives the other a nudge saying it was too far.

Out of our office, if anyone else likes to comment, they can feel free. Doesn't stop me in my day to day but If I feel that they went a bit too far, I will mention it to my manager who will follow it up.


Always talk to someone about it, never stay quiet. Good luck.
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I am 1 of the 2 only guys at work so there is always dram and i just laugh at it or am sarcastic about it.
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Just know to be nice now, used to be the opposite way around.
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Ignore it as best as you can.

That's what I do but if I talked back I would get fired.
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In one ear and out the other. I am currently building a cobalt SS and I work at a dodge dealership. People make fun of the car on a daily and how I'll go no where with it. Always make shit remarks. But I know what I'm doing and how the car is gonna change in the next year.

Just ignore them! Your life, your business. What ever it is that they're saying. Just ignore it as the drama isn't worth it!
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I'd say ignore it and don't be like me lol
Just lost my job for not keeping quite and punching someone, suppose we both learnt a lesson, he'll keep his mouth shut and I won't react no more
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