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so ive been talking to this girl for most the summer and it hasnt really went to plan. ive asked her to hangout plenty of times and she declined everytime and never really gave me another day or time when we could but just recommended we should, she later told me she doesnt feel comfortable because she thinks id stop talking to her because of how she looks w out make up and how she is and all so i accepted that reason, she also has some family issues that i dont really wanna talk about to anyone or even say in general but thats that. i tried to stop thinking about her and even asked a q on ttg on how to forget but we got into the same class so that didnt go so well and the feelings feel like they're back to day 1. anyways, we talked a bit and i asked her to hangout and she said she could next week, we talked a few more days after then i never really messaged her and i havent been going to school lately due to stress and other issues(dw about that tho, im going on a trip this week and i should have everything sorted out and cleared and when i get back). so that weekend i havent had a chance to ask if we were still gonna do something but we havent talked at all but i also asked if she didnt like me or anything and she just said i couldnt like her because of who she is and how she is, and how shes an awful person and how every person she trusted walked out on her and she liked me but couldnt trust me and she was sorry for it and she went off on how bad her life was and told me something pretty bad what used to happen which like i said im not mentioning so i completely understand and it makes a bit more sense to me.

the thing is, idk if its worth going at anymore, i can either keep going till i gain her trust which could be a few days to months ahead or i could just completely fade away and never say anything again and act like we have never talked or something...

and if you do agree i should still chase, what are some ways i can make her trust me?
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CyberbuIIies wroteso ive been talking to this girl for most the summer and it hasnt really went to plan. ive asked her to hangout plenty of times and she declined everytime and never really gave me another day or time when we could but just recommended we should, she later told me she doesnt feel comfortable because she thinks id stop talking to her because of how she looks w out make up and how she is and all so i accepted that reason, she also has some family issues that i dont really wanna talk about to anyone or even say in general but thats that. i tried to stop thinking about her and even asked a q on ttg on how to forget but we got into the same class so that didnt go so well and the feelings feel like they're back to day 1. anyways, we talked a bit and i asked her to hangout and she said she could next week, we talked a few more days after then i never really messaged her and i havent been going to school lately due to stress and other issues(dw about that tho, im going on a trip this week and i should have everything sorted out and cleared and when i get back). so that weekend i havent had a chance to ask if we were still gonna do something but we havent talked at all but i also asked if she didnt like me or anything and she just said i couldnt like her because of who she is and how she is, and how shes an awful person and how every person she trusted walked out on her and she liked me but couldnt trust me and she was sorry for it and she went off on how bad her life was and told me something pretty bad what used to happen which like i said im not mentioning so i completely understand and it makes a bit more sense to me.

the thing is, idk if its worth going at anymore, i can either keep going till i gain her trust which could be a few days to months ahead or i could just completely fade away and never say anything again and act like we have never talked or something...

and if you do agree i should still chase, what are some ways i can make her trust me?


It sounds like some beta-male stuff if you take the second option; luckily you got some TTG Bros you can phone. Seriously, you should invest some more time with her. She might tell you what's really going on, that whole I'm too this or I'm too that is a front for something else. Take your time, it might be the start of something beautiful.
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CoreyTaylor wrote
CyberbuIIies wroteso ive been talking to this girl for most the summer and it hasnt really went to plan. ive asked her to hangout plenty of times and she declined everytime and never really gave me another day or time when we could but just recommended we should, she later told me she doesnt feel comfortable because she thinks id stop talking to her because of how she looks w out make up and how she is and all so i accepted that reason, she also has some family issues that i dont really wanna talk about to anyone or even say in general but thats that. i tried to stop thinking about her and even asked a q on ttg on how to forget but we got into the same class so that didnt go so well and the feelings feel like they're back to day 1. anyways, we talked a bit and i asked her to hangout and she said she could next week, we talked a few more days after then i never really messaged her and i havent been going to school lately due to stress and other issues(dw about that tho, im going on a trip this week and i should have everything sorted out and cleared and when i get back). so that weekend i havent had a chance to ask if we were still gonna do something but we havent talked at all but i also asked if she didnt like me or anything and she just said i couldnt like her because of who she is and how she is, and how shes an awful person and how every person she trusted walked out on her and she liked me but couldnt trust me and she was sorry for it and she went off on how bad her life was and told me something pretty bad what used to happen which like i said im not mentioning so i completely understand and it makes a bit more sense to me.

the thing is, idk if its worth going at anymore, i can either keep going till i gain her trust which could be a few days to months ahead or i could just completely fade away and never say anything again and act like we have never talked or something...

and if you do agree i should still chase, what are some ways i can make her trust me?


It sounds like some beta-male stuff if you take the second option; luckily you got some TTG Bros you can phone. Seriously, you should invest some more time with her. She might tell you what's really going on, that whole I'm too this or I'm too that is a front for something else. Take your time, it might be the start of something beautiful.


i agree, but for a 2nd option thats all i was able to come up with lmao, i will keep going at it, shows dedication and my seriousness and hopefully itll open up her mind to trust me. also gonna ask if shes free this weekend from when im back on my trip
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Become her best friend before dating her, then she will see you are serious. If you aren't serious, the urge to be her best friend will diminish and you can only thank yourself for not getting into a relationship with her.

Give it some time
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