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Ok so started talking to this girl monday, she messaged me first (because i liked here to be honest post) and she said "To be honest your cute you should hit me up more" and i was into her so i started a conversation and we went from there so we have been talking everyday and i stood the night at her house on thursday (we didnt do anything sexual) we just watched a few movies and talked and got to know each other she had work the next morning so we woke up and i walked her to work and i went home before she left we hugged and kissed and then that was it when i got home i messaged her and we talked for a while then out of the blue she left me on seen stopped replying and so i ask whats wrong and she said "nothing" so i kept asking and she said, "Something is just happening and Its better off not putting you in the mix I need some time honestly" then i said ok and then she said sorry and then i said its fine and she said, "Buts it not I just don't wanna get you in the mix cause it's really complicated." Then i said its cool (i just didnt know what to say i was disappointed because i was really into her) and then she sent me 2 sad faces and i left her on seen (we were talking on messanger) and thats the end. I just want to know what you guys think, should i try to talk to her or should i let it be also what do you guys think she means by what she said i personally take it as theres someone else and she doesnt know what she wants to do. Just give me some feedback/thoughts and opinions thanks for reading!




EDIT: Also while we were talking she told me how we went to elemntary school together and i didnt remember until she reminded me and she told me she had the biggest crush on me then and she talked about me with her friends in highschool when she saw me we are now both juniors and she doesnt go to school anymore so she has a background with me it just seems odd.


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Sounds like a bit of a cry for a attention to be honest
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I would think she is blowing you off if I was in your position but if I were you, I would go with the option talking to her in person. See if she lost feelings for you or something actually came up.
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urBeats wroteSounds like a bit of a cry for a attention to be honest
your not really pointing me in a direction on what to do, although thanks for the feedback!
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Getting a suspicion that there is another dude involved just by reading it.

"Buts it not I just don't wanna get you in the mix cause it's really complicated."
That sentence there kinda shows that there is something she clearly doesn't want you to know that would definitely ruin what you two have going on.

Just let it be as it is for now and see what happens.
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Brigand wroteGetting a suspicion that there is another dude involved just by reading it.

"Buts it not I just don't wanna get you in the mix cause it's really complicated."
That sentence there kinda shows that there is something she clearly doesn't want you to know that would definitely ruin what you two have going on.

Just let it be as it is for now and see what happens.
did you read the entire post lol because i said the same thing you are saying...
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Sounds like a test. maybe she wanted to see if you cared enough to actually get involved and you didnt.
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Zzaroth wroteSounds like a test. maybe she wanted to see if you cared enough to actually get involved and you didnt.
This could be possibility... all around you are in a shitty situation OP.
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Basically this means that she either has an ex who's she's still trying to work things out with and you'll be the next option in line or it means that she likes another guy and she's in the process of trying to get with him
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XeCookie_ wrote
urBeats wroteSounds like a bit of a cry for a attention to be honest
your not really pointing me in a direction on what to do, although thanks for the feedback!


Well if it is for attention I would just not bother with her anymore
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